Heck no!
Fake bows with fake thumb prints to the ground are dumb and meaningless.
If a groom wants to take my future daughters they gotta do something sincere, not something they "had to" do.
Americanized wedding is even more fake to the Hmong groom. Trust me on this! Mostly everything is coordinated at the demands of the bride. It only has meaning to her and her alone. With a Hmong wedding, even if the groom doesn't understand what's going on the fact that it carries value and importance for his parents becomes very meaningful to him.
This is just how it is for a man in general.
