the result is the same with a hmong girl and a black guy. no dowry.
or
both moms "yog kuv yug, mob kuv plab, kuv yuav sau $5000". then they pay each other $5000.
Off topic: Damn, peb saib kaydoo nqis npaum ntawd los?

If it really went down like option two there, it's gonna equal zero at the end. Might as well save the trouble and just let the two have a nice wedding ceremony xwb mas.