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Devilhimself3312

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Ok..another one. At funerals....
« on: November 13, 2009, 10:53:14 AM »
Ok....for you americanized kids, do you know what you need to do at a funeral when it's your family that passed away?  I see too many of young bucks/gals at funeral just sitting on their arse looking all lost.  How dare you.  Ok ok, you show your face and you think that's enough.  When you are asked to wake up like 2:00-3:00 in the morning to go slaughter pigs/cows/chickens, you're like, "I don't know how".  Times like this, you're useless to me. >:D



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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #1 on: November 13, 2009, 10:54:31 AM »
agreed with you on that!  What they need to be doing is helping the elders, asking whats needed help and what not instead of sitting on their asses! 



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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #2 on: November 13, 2009, 11:03:03 AM »
sorry homies.. we don't need to stay up until 3 or 4 in the morning.  :D



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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #3 on: November 13, 2009, 11:12:05 AM »
sorry homies.. we don't need to stay up until 3 or 4 in the morning.  :D

we dont' but the elders do......its still tradition if needed.  Go to church than you don't need to stay past midnight. 



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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #4 on: November 13, 2009, 11:13:49 AM »
sorry homies.. we don't need to stay up until 3 or 4 in the morning.  :D

Sorry homie, you need to do what you need to do when the time comes.  It's call growing up. >:D



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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #5 on: November 13, 2009, 11:15:50 AM »
I don't know the rules, but I know how to help and listen.



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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #6 on: November 13, 2009, 11:16:16 AM »
we dont' but the elders do......its still tradition if needed.  Go to church than you don't need to stay past midnight.  

That's what i'm saying.. I do goto church so we don't need to do that.  8)



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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #7 on: November 13, 2009, 11:17:32 AM »
Yeah I go to church too so I don't need to worry about slaugthering animals!! or staying up till midnight...... ...  :)



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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #8 on: November 13, 2009, 11:24:13 AM »
Yeah I go to church too so I don't need to worry about slaugthering animals!! or staying up till midnight...... ...  :)

you'll still slaughter animals....chu rch or no church!   :)



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Devilhimself3312

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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #9 on: November 13, 2009, 11:27:28 AM »
I don't know the rules, but I know how to help and listen.
That's all it takes at times.  Listen and help.  Fromt that, you'll eventually learn.  I'm talking about the ones who just sits there and act like it's the shiet to do when everyone around them is doing this and that. >:D



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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #10 on: November 13, 2009, 11:31:20 AM »
you'll still slaughter animals....chu rch or no church!   :)

I'm sure we do....

But the elders usually takes care of it......



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Devilhimself3312

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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #11 on: November 13, 2009, 11:32:21 AM »
I'm sure we do....

But the elders usually takes care of it......

What's your part?  The sitting around?  As a lady, you'll atleast still have to pass the drinks/fruits around.  Do something. >:D



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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #12 on: November 13, 2009, 11:34:37 AM »
I usually try to help when the deceased is a close family member...chop up foods, run errands, or pass out food/drinks..but if there's already too many ppl in the kitchen or there's not anything to do at the moment, I may just sit around or socialize. But I've never gone to a funeral of a close family member and not assist at all the entire time.



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« Reply #13 on: November 13, 2009, 11:39:00 AM »
depends how close i am to the dec'd. If it's immediate family, I know better to serve drinks, acknowledge all family and friends who attend, and socialize with everyone.

If it's a distant relative.. i show up and give my condolences, stay for a few hours and come back the next day again.



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Re: Ok..another one. At funerals....
« Reply #14 on: November 13, 2009, 11:39:24 AM »
What's your part?  The sitting around?  As a lady, you'll atleast still have to pass the drinks/fruits around.  Do something. >:D

I show up... say hi to all the elder people that I may know...

Ask my mother is there anything to do........ its my mothers call......

I only sit around when its not necessary of me to go up and serve people...



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