cwjmendub,
I believe that love, especially the kind of love you have.... is within you. Whether it is to be given to her or to another, it is a love that comes within you. If you don't have it in you, you would not have been able to recognize her love and to respond to it.
It's one thing to remember her and appreciate what she have taught you, but to live your life so consumed with her love and memory that it occupies your life and your thoughts every minute, you are doing an injustice to the one who NOW loves you.