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Offline HmongKnight

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Hmong Rituals are over do.
« on: June 07, 2010, 10:02:09 PM »
I live in a town that were flooded with relatives. About 90% of them are non-christian. They do rituals almost every weekend. Me and my family are christians but we are very close with the rest of the relatives. Whatever feast we have, they come to join us and whatever feast they have we go join them. The problem is we only have a feast like once a year but they have feast like almost every weekend. There are times when we want a weekend or two to get away from the city, like go fishing or hunting but they insist that we stay because they are having a feast. I'm sick and tire of all these feasts. Should we move out of this city?



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Re: Hmong Rituals are over do.
« Reply #1 on: June 08, 2010, 04:37:10 PM »
They just said those respect words to you and you don't have to stay.
As far as I look around the christian communities, Majority of christians are minor or more women then men.



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Re: Hmong Rituals are over do.
« Reply #2 on: June 10, 2010, 02:24:39 PM »
They just said those respect words to you and you don't have to stay.
As far as I look around the christian communities, Majority of christians are minor or more women then men

that's what i see..too..



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Re: Hmong Rituals are over do.
« Reply #3 on: June 10, 2010, 07:52:09 PM »
But if you don't go, they will say, "kuv muaj noj haus nws tsis tuaj, lwm hnub nws muaj kuv yeej tsis mus thiab." OUCH!!



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Re: Hmong Rituals are over do.
« Reply #4 on: June 11, 2010, 01:42:29 AM »
But if you don't go, they will say, "kuv muaj noj haus nws tsis tuaj, lwm hnub nws muaj kuv yeej tsis mus thiab." OUCH!!

but shiet it's not like you never attended....mu s show face xwb ces lawm yeej zoo siab lawm thiab..u lucky u live where....kwv tij coob coob...try living where kwv tij not coob coob...and thaum twg yuav thov zog...tsis muaj ib tug kwv tij li..


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Re: Hmong Rituals are over do.
« Reply #5 on: June 12, 2010, 04:36:23 AM »
Your not obligated to go every single weekend. Im sure they will understand...



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