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« Reply #30 on: June 24, 2010, 08:26:00 AM » |
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lol thats sad. the way she say it, means you're still ugly and it aint gonna change. i see no compliment in that.
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« Reply #31 on: June 24, 2010, 05:49:31 PM » |
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I was wondering has anyone had a similar experience...t his is a conversation my cousins and I had with an aunty of mine at a function...
Aunty: You, cousin #1, cousin #2 and cousin #3 should be happy that you guys have always been ugly. Us: Why?
Aunty: Because as the years progress you have all remain the same, whereas the girls who blossom early we thought they were so pretty back than and now they are not as good looking as you guys...
WTF?...I did not know whether to be insulted or take it as a compliment.... hahaha...LOL
That's still an insult... lmfao
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« Reply #32 on: June 24, 2010, 07:13:09 PM » |
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I was wondering has anyone had a similar experience...t his is a conversation my cousins and I had with an aunty of mine at a function...
Aunty: You, cousin #1, cousin #2 and cousin #3 should be happy that you guys have always been ugly.
Us: Why?
Aunty: Because as the years progress you have all remain the same, whereas the girls who blossom early we thought they were so pretty back than and now they are not as good looking as you guys...
WTF?...I did not know whether to be insulted or take it as a compliment.... hahaha...LOL
its her way of saying: your maturity and inner beauty will show...but she slipped her tongue by insulting you girls before the compliment
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« Reply #33 on: June 25, 2010, 09:09:21 AM » |
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How did your aunt say it in Hmong? It may sound different. In the old days and even now for some OG...if they see a cute baby, they don't say "oh cas zoo nkauj/zoo nraug ntxim hlub ua luaj os!" If you compliment them like that, then the evil spirits will come and take him/her away because back then it seemed like only the "good" ones pass on. So...instead they would say "oh ua cas me-ab yuav tsw quav/phem quav ua luaj os..!" Saying this will disguise the baby and the demons/spirits will not seek him/her out. That's what my grandma told me. 
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« Reply #34 on: June 25, 2010, 09:40:15 AM » |
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^^^ but the thing is ... i have a suspicion the OP isnt a baby anymore. to me what the aunt is saying is: pretty girls get old faster .... "ugly girls" dont. .. so gettin older, age will take a toll on pretty girls. ... this is sort of saying that the aunt believes old age will make everyone look ugly -- therfore if ur already ugly -- you cant get any uglier!!!! ..... now how mean n nasty is that?? ..... pretty stupid statement if u ask me!! this basically sounds like a dumb bitter opinion by some jaded old lady ... some ppl who have beauty dont necesarily get old or "ugly" fast like she thinks ....  genes arent made all the same ....
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« Reply #35 on: June 25, 2010, 10:18:16 AM » |
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^^ Sometime these OG are so sarcastic so not really sure.
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« Reply #36 on: June 25, 2010, 11:14:00 AM » |
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I was wondering has anyone had a similar experience...t his is a conversation my cousins and I had with an aunty of mine at a function...
Aunty: You, cousin #1, cousin #2 and cousin #3 should be happy that you guys have always been ugly.
Us: Why?
Aunty: Because as the years progress you have all remain the same, whereas the girls who blossom early we thought they were so pretty back than and now they are not as good looking as you guys...
WTF?...I did not know whether to be insulted or take it as a compliment.... hahaha...LOL
take it as a compliment...m any girls i grew up with were hot back in the days...not they aren't all that great looking anymore...and the ones that were once ugly blossomed to be beautiful woman now... 
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« Reply #37 on: July 01, 2010, 05:18:07 PM » |
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haha.. these old ladies........
a friend came to me.. and said.. "your mom came to me and said.. if anyone ask you why you're an old maid and not married yet.... respond by saying that as long as you're not using their money to take care of yourself... they should leave you alone" ....she was like.. "i didn't know i was an old maid already"
the cousins of this one lady's daughter doesn't hang out with them as much... so she asked us "what did you guys do? did you gets use the elephant medicine on them or something... that's why they hang out with you guys and not my daughters anymore?" like.. wtf lady..
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« Reply #38 on: July 02, 2010, 01:28:01 AM » |
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Depends if you are ugly or not, if you're not ugly then don't feel offended by it.
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« Reply #39 on: August 19, 2010, 02:27:15 PM » |
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that's insult awww.. If someone or og ever said that to me I would be PISS & GET MAD.. Cause I would get offense of it..
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« Reply #40 on: August 20, 2010, 04:14:16 PM » |
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I was wondering has anyone had a similar experience...t his is a conversation my cousins and I had with an aunty of mine at a function...
Aunty: You, cousin #1, cousin #2 and cousin #3 should be happy that you guys have always been ugly.
Us: Why?
Aunty: Because as the years progress you have all remain the same, whereas the girls who blossom early we thought they were so pretty back than and now they are not as good looking as you guys...
WTF?...I did not know whether to be insulted or take it as a compliment.... hahaha...LOL
I think she was talking about herself. How she was good looking and now she's fugly.
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« Reply #41 on: August 26, 2010, 03:59:25 PM » |
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Wow. That was mean. It edges more into the insult side.
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« Reply #43 on: August 31, 2010, 08:02:53 PM » |
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Cut 30lbs..put on some make up and a wardrobe and move on...lol
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« Reply #44 on: September 01, 2010, 07:15:19 AM » |
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Compliment
Ugly when young but now, you're good looking... You should be glad.. lols
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