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« on: July 28, 2010, 12:04:34 PM »


http://glo.msn.com/relationships/dating-down-1533626.story?GT1=49006
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« Reply #1 on: July 28, 2010, 02:02:54 PM »


I'm pretty sure that if you hang out with the old folks every once in awhile...you wouldn't need to read that LOL.

J/K...but quite true!

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« Reply #2 on: July 28, 2010, 03:49:18 PM »



"Researchers from UCLA and the University of Tennessee gathered 82 couples in their mid-twenties who had married in the past year and had been together for almost three years prior, then filmed the couples discussing a personal problem. All the while, a panel of people evaluated who was the better looking individual in each pair. After analyzing the tapes, researchers discovered that in couples where the man was more attractive than the woman, he said often things such as, “This is your problem, you deal with it” whereas the unattractive hubbies were more apt to say things like, “I'm here for you — what do you want me to do? How can I help you?'"


I'd agree with the above statement.  I know a lady who's a average looking woman w/ womanly assets and a professional herself, got married to a verbally and emotionally abusive ER doctor and she has recently became a nutcase because of him Cheesy Cheesy.
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« Reply #3 on: July 29, 2010, 04:35:37 AM »

Real love comes in all shapes and sizes and does not discriminate as well as seeing beyond just the physical image.  ThumbUp
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« Reply #4 on: July 29, 2010, 06:36:56 AM »

Real love comes in all shapes and sizes and does not discriminate as well as seeing beyond just the physical image.  ThumbUp

really?...I think unglier and less good looking guys tend to treat their women better simply because they are aware of the fact that they're not all that themsleves.  Whereas a good looking or handsome guy who constantly gets attention from women all the time will not care to treat his woman as good...it's human nature.

I have a handsome guy friend who treats his wife like shit/dirt but she wouldn't leave him either.  But the thing with him is, he knos himself pretty well interms of what type of woman he wants to be with; He wouldn't be with any other women who wouldn't allowed him to be and acted the way he is either.  I know the reason he behaves that way is because he knows he's handsome and can get with any other girl easily.
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« Reply #5 on: July 29, 2010, 06:42:19 AM »

I'm pretty sure that if you hang out with the old folks every once in awhile...you wouldn't need to read that LOL.

J/K...but quite true!



It is true, guys are even more cockier and big headed compared to women, especially if they kno they're are handsome. 
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« Reply #6 on: July 29, 2010, 07:02:02 AM »

Human nature, sure sure.. Always using human nature as an excuse to justify the selfish ill manor behaviors of bad men.  

Depends on the man whether good looking or not, it depends on their character and personality. Good men not only respects others but themself and knows when to never cross the line even if temptation presents itself. I've seen men who are "not all that" who believes they are gods gift to woman and still disrespects women. Therefore, it goes both ways just depends on that particular person, their personalilty, respect towards others and how they view themself as an individual.

I wonder, if a man was really all that and can get with any woman he wants, why not find one just like him rather than being with a woman who's willing to put up with his nonsense. IDK.. maybe he isn't all that after all.  I guess when a woman has the patience it's cause she's dumb and stupid, however, I think the jerk should be the one to be grateful as he has a good wife whose willing to sacrifice and put up with his ill manor behavior.


really?...I think unglier and less good looking guys tend to treat their women better simply because they are aware of the fact that they're not all that themsleves.  Whereas a good looking or handsome guy who constantly gets attention from women all the time will not care to treat his woman as good...it's human nature.

I have a handsome guy friend who treats his wife like shit/dirt but she wouldn't leave him either.  But the thing with him is, he knos himself pretty well interms of what type of woman he wants to be with; He wouldn't be with any other women who wouldn't allowed him to be and acted the way he is either.  I know the reason he behaves that way is because he knows he's handsome and can get with any other girl easily.
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« Reply #7 on: July 29, 2010, 07:31:24 AM »

A man/woman regardless how good looking they are, if their attitude and personality stinks, the good look has just gone to waste. Just how I see things that's all.
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« Reply #8 on: July 29, 2010, 07:58:07 AM »

Human nature, sure sure.. Always using human nature as an excuse to justify the selfish ill manor behaviors of bad men.  

Depends on the man whether good looking or not, it depends on their character and personality. Good men not only respects others but themself and knows when to never cross the line even if temptation presents itself. I've seen men who are "not all that" who believes they are gods gift to woman and still disrespects women. Therefore, it goes both ways just depends on that particular person, their personalilty, respect towards others and how they view themself as an individual.

I wonder, if a man was really all that and can get with any woman he wants, why not find one just like him rather than being with a woman who's willing to put up with his nonsense. IDK.. maybe he isn't all that after all.  I guess when a woman has the patience it's cause she's dumb and stupid, however, I think the jerk should be the one to be grateful as he has a good wife whose willing to sacrifice and put up with his ill manor behavior.





Some people just don't know what they've got until they loose it that's all, it's just selfishness no excuses. 
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« Reply #9 on: July 29, 2010, 08:05:32 AM »

Yog mas.  Smiley




Some people just don't know what they've got until they loose it that's all, it's just selfishness no excuses. 
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« Reply #10 on: July 30, 2010, 01:17:35 PM »

Human nature, sure sure.. Always using human nature as an excuse to justify the selfish ill manor behaviors of bad men.  

Depends on the man whether good looking or not, it depends on their character and personality. Good men not only respects others but themself and knows when to never cross the line even if temptation presents itself. I've seen men who are "not all that" who believes they are gods gift to woman and still disrespects women. Therefore, it goes both ways just depends on that particular person, their personalilty, respect towards others and how they view themself as an individual.

I wonder, if a man was really all that and can get with any woman he wants, why not find one just like him rather than being with a woman who's willing to put up with his nonsense. IDK.. maybe he isn't all that after all.  I guess when a woman has the patience it's cause she's dumb and stupid, however, I think the jerk should be the one to be grateful as he has a good wife whose willing to sacrifice and put up with his ill manor behavior.



I'm not using human nature as an excuse for anything, "it's just the fact of life" is what I'm saying!  

why would he want to find one exactly like him when what he wants to do is played and fooled aorund on side ...so he has to find one who wil put up with him.
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« Reply #11 on: July 30, 2010, 10:00:37 PM »

really?...I think unglier and less good looking guys tend to treat their women better simply because they are aware of the fact that they're not all that themsleves.  Whereas a good looking or handsome guy who constantly gets attention from women all the time will not care to treat his woman as good...it's human nature.

I have a handsome guy friend who treats his wife like shit/dirt but she wouldn't leave him either.  But the thing with him is, he knos himself pretty well interms of what type of woman he wants to be with; He wouldn't be with any other women who wouldn't allowed him to be and acted the way he is either.  I know the reason he behaves that way is because he knows he's handsome and can get with any other girl easily.

What the article is saying supports what you're saying.....yes, that's how reality is....so good looking guys are jerks and bad looking guys are nice....I'll take the nice one please.
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« Reply #12 on: July 31, 2010, 02:22:15 PM »

There is something that the article failed to understand. 

You know that good looking models, they don't date much.  A part of it is being picky because they get hit on constantly but if you ask them if they think of themselves as being pretty, they will most likely say that they're average. 

There are more good looking people out there who uses their good looks to their benefits.  They know how good looking they are.  What I am interested is in the diamond in the ruff.  She's pretty but she does not know how pretty she is.  Not knowing puts her in the humble position.  I'm a lot uglier than her but to her, she thinks that she's uglier than me.  As long as we both can lie to ourselves, it's all gravy baby.  We both are ugly to each other and that is our point of view.  I think happy couples are like this.  LOL
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« Reply #13 on: July 31, 2010, 11:00:28 PM »

There is something that the article failed to understand.  

You know that good looking models, they don't date much.  A part of it is being picky because they get hit on constantly but if you ask them if they think of themselves as being pretty, they will most likely say that they're average.  

There are more good looking people out there who uses their good looks to their benefits.  They know how good looking they are.  What I am interested is in the diamond in the ruff.  She's pretty but she does not know how pretty she is.  Not knowing puts her in the humble position.  I'm a lot uglier than her but to her, she thinks that she's uglier than me.  As long as we both can lie to ourselves, it's all gravy baby.  We both are ugly to each other and that is our point of view.  I think happy couples are like this.  LOL

What girl who's pretty doesn't think or know she's pretty?  I think that only happens back in the caveman days....cause a pretty girl in this day and age is constantly being told she's pretty, by both genders.

It's more like she knows she's pretty but she can accept one who's not so good looking.
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