i know wat happen.. my mother told me that she live with the meekas and took care of his 3 kids then the meekas dude dont want her any more she moved back to live with her parents. her parents wont accept her. hahaes at her that all this time she live with a meekas and be with him y dont she just go and stay there and dont come back home they dont want her any more and blah blah all these hahaing i guess she has no way out, but to end her own life. i guess she is hurt enough frm the meekas not wanting her and now her own birth parents dnt want her.. tat is one thing i hate bout hmong parents they rather save their face even though they know how hard it is going to impact their kids... dang parents y can't they be more open and welcoming when ur at ur hardest!