Thao girl hung herself in Robbinsdale

[White Lotus]

i know wat happen.. my mother told me that she live with the meekas and took care of his 3 kids then the meekas dude dont want her any more she moved back to live with her parents.  her parents wont accept her. hahaes at her that all this time she live with a meekas and be with him y dont she just go and stay there and dont come back home they dont want her any more and blah blah all these hahaing i guess she has no way out, but to end her own life.  i guess she is hurt enough frm the meekas not wanting her and now her own birth parents dnt want her..  tat is one thing i hate bout hmong parents they rather save their face even though they know how hard it is going to impact their kids... dang parents y can't they be more open and welcoming when ur at ur hardest!

As grown adults, we should be prepared to face the consequences before we take our actions to the extreme.  The parents were not the one to make the decision, why should they have to deal with the consequences?  In some parts, it is the reputation that they are trying to hold on to.  But in some parts, it is because they are grown adults and have more experience.  Kids think that they get hurt more when they mess up because of their own decision, yet the parents hurt even more when they can't stop their kids walking into a trap of failure. 

Some parents might not be educated or have a good relationship with their kids, but parents still have more experience when it comes to dealing with the world.  What's good and not. 

[No regret]

No Regret: I agree also that Hmong parents rather save their faces than saving their own children. This is also one big thing I hate about the Hmong people. Forsure I will not carry this type of treatments to my kids.

not sure if the parents have anything to do with it, I think it's just her relationship with that meeka dude.

[Toua]

it was all her fault. I bet her parents disagreed with the relationship with the white dude. Fail and owned

[hurricane]

i dont feel sorry for that girl at all. she made her choice to be with the white dude. i feel sorry for all the hmong girls who choose to date outside the hmong race. you should all know that once u take that step you're outcast from your family clan. you have to accept that and that's what she did and killed herself.(good girl taking the initiative to kill ur self)  maybe in 10 -15 years when all the old farts are dead then the younger generation will step up and be more accepting toward there kids b/c of our enviorment.

[No regret]

i dont feel sorry for that girl at all. she made her choice to be with the white dude. i feel sorry for all the hmong girls who choose to date outside the hmong race. you should all know that once u take that step you're outcast from your family clan. you have to accept that and that's what she did and killed herself.(good girl taking the initiative to kill ur self)  maybe in 10 -15 years when all the old farts are dead then the younger generation will step up and be more accepting toward there kids b/c of our enviorment.

C'mon people we can't say it's all because she was dating a white guy....this could have also happened too even with a hmong guy.  It's basically just a relationship problem if that was the case, it's not because of the color skin of her fiance'.

[No regret]

we can only speculate, we dont' even know the truth or will never know the truth.

[Toua]

C'mon people we can't say it's all because she was dating a white guy....this could have also happened too even with a hmong guy.  It's basically just a relationship problem if that was the case, it's not because of the color skin of her fiance'.

but if she was dating a hmong dude, i am almost sure her parents wouldve accepted her back and she would still be alive. In the end, things happened because we chose to make it happen. All her fault.

[BCSPKKTM]

I love how everyone is pointing out that her s/o was white...but what aobut all the Hmong women who have committed suicide clearly due tol problems with their Hmong husband or were killed by their Hmong husband? 

[No regret]

but if she was dating a hmong dude, i am almost sure her parents wouldve accepted her back and she would still be alive. In the end, things happened because we chose to make it happen. All her fault.

Do you know that for a fact, that it's because her wouldn't accept her back which lead to her suicide???

Most everything in here are just speculations, no really knows the truth.