I am sorry for saying this, and it may harm some of you and it may open the eyes of others. but I hope it will actually 'wake u up' from drowing in the isolation and 'hardcore be hmong' pool.
the reason why we dont have a country is because of how many of you have just displayed on here with your comments. in order to reach and grab a hold of an alliance/commrade/befriend/political acquiantance a person or a party must acknowledge their commrades nature also.
to totally avoid your guests culture would be somewhat of an insult, especially on his home soil. to totally blast him with 'your own' overwhelming cultural events repeatedly over and over, may become too much as to a point of disappointment . this shows unbalance.
is it not a nice gesture to be treated very kindly when you fly to your friends home in florida? or california? or wisconsin? when u arrive and they have prepared a room for your convenience... they have prepared food because of your long trip... they have rented 'your' favorite DVD... they are playing 'your' favorite songs... they plan tomorrows tour and site seeing because you are their guest.... are these things bad?? are you not impressed? or should they shove 'their' DVD in your face for 2 hrs....and make you listen to 'their' music all night...and make a bed for you in the attic....or they say, we didnt have room but theres a hotel across town. poured sink water for you....is that how we treat our guests??
should we worry about them not knowing our culture? well hey...we first gotta be their friends...and accommodate them with small pleasant surprises....i think the part where they will take the time to learn our culture will come, as long as they have become our friend first, then things will fall into place.
we are always trying to force our culture onto those who have walked into our path. we are so concerned that they dont know us and our ways....it should not matter, as most people respect, humans and they dont want to see a difference in color/race and culture....the y just want to enjoy their time with you and hope for a future friendship.
now....playing the american anthem is superior gesture. one, this is THEIR land. two, most of US, ARE AMERICANS!!!!!!!!!!...hold on, did anyone miss that?.....MOST OF US ARE AMERICANS....s o obviously we wont be playing El Savadors anthem...nor will we be playing the communist Lao anthem....nor will we be playing the communist china anthem......ma ybe we should have played the Facist German theme?.....
and no, kws txhaj, if i spelled it right(?), is not equal to a national anthem....how dare anyone compare rock and roll blues and/or kws txhaj and/or japanese geisha music to a national anthem.
so think people....thin k and think real real hard....who u are and how u act....we will not grow until some of u people grow in thought