venting..

[Special_K]

Why do people lie? 

if you are going to do something why don't you just tell me?? why can't you be open with me?  Why do it and and then tell me afterwards when you've already lied to me??  why??

 

[Images]

Girl, there is no point. People with that kind of bad habit will never change. My s/o is just like described above.

[Lady_Fallin]

Fear of getting caught,  the thrill of getting away... Maybe they didn't think of it as a lie?

Bad communication? Scary consequences?

[Special_K]

i mean dayem, if you are going to lie, take it to the grave.. why stumble upon your lies and get caught.  geezz.. I mean isn't it easier to tell the truth then lie and get caught. Now you're calling all day, work and cell phones and possible waiting out in the lot for me.  Thank gawd i didn't drive to work today. 

[magicofju]

i mean dayem, if you are going to lie, take it to the grave.. why stumble upon your lies and get caught.  geezz.. I mean isn't it easier to tell the truth then lie and get caught. Now you're calling all day, work and cell phones and possible waiting out in the lot for me.  Thank gawd i didn't drive to work today. 

I agree with this. Maybe they are ashamed of themselves, and lying can conceal it for them. But I've alwase been a truthful person and can own up to my mistakes too. Some of my friends and family still yell at me for being too real and too truthful while posting on PH  Yeah I have personal friends and family in other states who use PH too and they have scolded me via my folks to tell me not be so honest with my comments and that I should learn how to lie more often.      That's why I'm thinking of using another alias screenname just to bullshiet around on PH. Cause when I'm under this screenname it's the real me. 

[VillainousHero]

Liars have no reasons to tell the truth.  It has no meaning to them.   They are pretentious to the end.  Fariy tale endings.  Flying on the winds of change.  WTF = Where's The Fun? 

[Special_K]

Liars have no reasons to tell the truth.  It has no meaning to them.   They are pretentious to the end.  Fariy tale endings.  Flying on the winds of change.  WTF = Where's The Fun? 

Aint that the truth!   

[fuglyhottie]

everybody fkin lies, everybody is a fkin 2-faced.---only way a person is telling the truth is if he/she has alibis that can back up their claims and stories. nobody likes to get investigated.. .but that's the only way to get to the truth.

for instance, when you do a background check on someone's character...an d people usually say good things about a person, it usually means they ARE a decent person. if people warn or say bad things about a person, it COULD be true too, or they are just jealous of that person, so they talk shit about them. deal with YOU fkin later.  

[Melony]

People lie because one they want to protect you or don't care about you.

[White Lotus]

It's never easy to tell the truth.  Most of all we don't want to admit that we are wrong that we are bad. 

[trippleX]

Ppl lie not to protect you, but to protect themself and cover the tracks of their selfish acts and behaviors. Those who say ppl lie to protect you is an understatement and needs better evaluaton of the circumstances and facts prior to making assumptions.

[Central]

gotta lie to kick it right?

[VillainousHero]

everybody fkin lies, everybody is a fkin 2-faced.---only way a person is telling the truth is if he/she has alibis that can back up their claims and stories. nobody likes to get investigated.. .but that's the only way to get to the truth.

for instance, when you do a background check on someone's character...an d people usually say good things about a person, it usually means they ARE a decent person. if people warn or say bad things about a person, it COULD be true too, or they are just jealous of that person, so they talk shit about them. deal with YOU fkin later.  

If everybody lies, then there's no alibis. 

[No regret]

Is this another topic about dating azzhole/jerks?

[VillainousHero]

Could be, but maybe focused on just the liars.