What if they really loved each other?
We are not in their shoes so we don't really know what goes on in their heads. But as the outsiders looking in on their relationship, we do frown and look down on it. It is not fair to the spouse that they are hurting or hurted. They are fools and stupid really. If they are willing to risk getting humiliated together, then maybe it is better that they disappear from their community and family and live elsewhere on their own to avoid the ridicules if they want to be with each other that bad. I think I have shared this story before and I don't mind sharing it again, and he can hate me all he wants if he should come across this hehe. But I had a guy friend who was two-timing with two young girls the same age living in the same areas. I believe they knew about each other too but they both still claimed him as their boyfriend. He was just able to make time for two girfriends, see one while the other was at work, or alternate every other day between the two.
Well 5 years ago, his family wanted him to get married, and he decided to marry the girl his family liked more, who was also related to them. He ended up marrying the girl his family liked but still continued a relationship with the other girlfriend he didn't marry. The other girlfriend knew he went and got married, but she didn't care, she still kept seeing him. She didn't know how to feel tu siab and feel any shame that's why she still kept having an affair with her married boyfriend. Wake up girl! When a man marries somebody else, shouldn't that make you feel hurt and angry and tell him to fawk off and tell him to be a loyal husband to his new wife? But nope. She still went over to his house, still slept there. My guy friend is a jerk and a woman user, like one woman isn't enough for him. He was telling his second girlfriend that his new wife is this and that, making up lies that she's a bad wife and he married the wrong girl, so that is probably why the stupid airhead girlfriend felt sorry for him and wanted to be there for him and comfort him, and compete to have him back. I swear young girls are so naive and senseless. His first marriage already failed on him and he was in his 2nd marriage already with the younger girl that his family had approved of. I know this too because his 2nd wife is related and is the niece of my aunt, my dad's older brother's wife, her brothers and relatives are from their city as well.
Not even a year into his 2nd marriage, his young wife finally left. But she still contacted him. That's where she went wrong too. If you're going to leave, leave for good. Do not contact him anymore, be the better person and just leave him for good so he can be with his little mistress; they are the ones to blame. He can't be a good and loyal husband, and she doesn't feel any shame that she will continue a relationship with a married man. But it went off and on for several years where his 2nd wife and his other girlfriend fought and competed to be with him. Holy wow, his ego and his head must be so inflated and he must feel so cawky that he has two girls fighting over him. He believes all internet girls has a thing for him too buahahahaa lmao.
Dude comes in here too, with just as many screennames as the nicknames he gives out to girls when he talks to them over the phone. All over the USA. I'm such a mean and heartless b*tch hahahahaa. I'm cracking his egg out. But he deserves it. He is not a very faithful and good guy towards women. He is a loving father, but just not a very good man towards women. He uses and manipulates women, and if you're dumb to fall for his web of deciets then you really are just that: a dumbass.
Now 6 years later, he's still off and on with the second girlfriend he had his affair with. She expects a marriage out of this, after all the drama and bs he has pulled on them both, she still can't leave him. That is why, there are some divorced men out there, who like to date younger girls because younger girls will believe everything an older man says, and he can psychologicall
y manipulate her and be the mastermind. If it's been going on 5+ years and all you've hit are dead ends, and the man hasn't married you yet, shouldn't that tell you something too? He's flying off on his business trips to meet other girls while he has you sit at home, waiting for him, anticipating that he'll marry you someday. Wrong. He's still looking and you're just a backup to him again, because he knows you love him more than he actually loves you, so whenever he needs it or is lonely, he'll know you will still take him back. That's why you'll just get used repeatedly. He may show a softer and gentler side to you, but his mind is all wacked and lost, and until he can find something within him to change to be a better man on his own, you're just gonna be easy and willing poocee for him.
Good luck if those two actually does get married.
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