trippleX, you have annoyed me on the boards in here in the past and currently on my blocked list, but I'm going to be cool with you and agree that you have made good points regarding this infedelity issue.
Cheaters also cheat because they lack self-control and moral decency. They are overly-confident people on the outside but deep down inside they are very insecure people.
When I was in my early 20s, older men 10+ years older use to hit on me all the time. Some of them married men too. But I wasn't the type to curse them off, I was brought up to speak to men respectfully and be polite and gentle. Guys can be cruel, the way you talk or if you throw an attitude towards him, he'll go around badmouthing you and say you're a stuck up haha and for guys to try and hit you up too. So yes even in person I am not mean to anybody. And in the first story that I shared about that married guy coming to visit me, I'm glad I had family members and friends who knew him, and looked out for me. Girls need to know how to do their research too for their own safety. Only stupid and bad girls would continue a relationship with a married guy knowing he's still married.