roach by telling the truth and throwing my invisible daggers. People who backstab are the haters, people who frontstab are the lovers
whatever I'm just jibbering tonite lol
But anyway back on topic, but don't waste your time trying to get answers. Move on. I hate those games that exs still play on you. Those are the ones that are the immature and needy ones that thrive off drama. That's why I'm not friends or don't talk to any of them over the phone anymore. The longer the time has passed and you don't hear from them anymore, and you don't contact them as well, they do start to slowly fade away. And you don't miss them anymore either, especially if it's been years too. They're just a part of your memory, as much as you'd like to erase them from your thoughts, sadly they still do come up in your thoughts, especially if it's like during an anniversary or a time you went somewhere together. Just push them in the back of your mind and leave it be and continue on with your life. Surround yourself with family and close friends. Go pick up a book, a new hobby, or just watch a program on tv or movie so you can get them out of your thoughts. Keep yourself busy and divert your mind toward other things. It's just better to wish each other well and move forward. Keeping in touch and calling each other up out of the blue to see how one is living will just make you relive your times together again and it will only make you weak. Plus if you have a new bf/gf then imagine how that would make them feel. If I know me talking to an ex will make my boyfriend jealous, I wouldn't do that to him.
Topic: How am i suppose to feel or deal with it? (Read 936 times)