Is this a flirt or a come on?

[Mr. Complicated]

... I have this distant relative guy, who wife's been giving me the look when ever we see each other at gatherings.  It's not an odinary casual look, it's the kind of flirty stare without taking her eyes away.  It makes me feel uncomfortable and not right, I would always be the one to looking away every time we happened to glanced at each other.  The last time him, me and his cousin were out cruising to buy some beers, she called my phone instead of his to asked where we are.  I was a little shocked and decided not to tell her husband about it.  I never gave her my cell number either....mayb e she called me instead, so I would tell the truth instead of calling him, not sure why.

To me, she cleary comes off like she wanted to flirt with me or is it just my imagination?

I'm the big brother here, what's her phone number.  I'll make sure she doesn't call ya again.

[NkaujNom]

Doesn't sound like flirting to me, seems like it's a "come on". You seem to have some dignity and self-respect, that's awesome! 

[AOZ]

omg.... u need to get l@id.  maybe she called u cause her hubbi left his phone at home.   

[No regret]

omg.... u need to get l@id.  maybe she called u cause her hubbi left his phone at home.   

this thread still going on ....yeah lets agree to that.

[J0RDAN]

Just do it n get it over with....so she will be happy

[evil-in-deed]

she is probably thinking the same thing too... and she mite even had told her husband about you always giving her to look...

next time when you see her... look to see if someone else is look at you looking at her looking at you...

[moonangel]

... I have this distant relative guy, who wife's been giving me the look when ever we see each other at gatherings.  It's not an odinary casual look, it's the kind of flirty stare without taking her eyes away.  It makes me feel uncomfortable and not right, I would always be the one to looking away every time we happened to glanced at each other.  The last time him, me and his cousin were out cruising to buy some beers, she called my phone instead of his to asked where we are.  I was a little shocked and decided not to tell her husband about it.  I never gave her my cell number either....mayb e she called me instead, so I would tell the truth instead of calling him, not sure why.

To me, she cleary comes off like she wanted to flirt with me or is it just my imagination?

It's that.  How about talk to her and get a feel for her personality. 

...and if she was flirt'n, that doesn't mean you freak out and run the other direction.  It just means she likes you but you don't have to like her back esp. if you are married and truly love your wife.  Just take it as a compliment. 

[LostInUrEyes_27]

I'm thinking you're just very bored and like to make up too much drama and stories for PH.

 

[No regret]

if i was making up story, trust me it would be 10 times better than this.  I'd probably say I banged somebody hot wife and now im in hiding for my life, cause they're looking to shoot my azzzz.

[No regret]

It's that.  How about talk to her and get a feel for her personality. 

...and if she was flirt'n, that doesn't mean you freak out and run the other direction.  It just means she likes you but you don't have to like her back esp. if you are married and truly love your wife.  Just take it as a compliment. 

Well i've have many other encounters with other wives, and it wasn't just my imagination that's why I assumed this case to be the same.  Lets just say in other cases, married women who I thought liked me ended up sneaking out alone with me before at night....but don't worried nothing happen. 

 Im not trying to prove anything here, just sharing my problems.....c an we put an end to this topic.

[moonangel]

Well i've have many other encounters with other wives, and it wasn't just my imagination that's why I assumed this case to be the same.  Lets just say in other cases, married women who I thought liked me ended up sneaking out alone with me before at night....but don't worried nothing happen. 

 Im not trying to prove anything here, just sharing my problems.....c an we put an end to this topic.

WAIT. Those girls were sneaking out with you?  Arent' you married?   

You know, you're the flirt-er.  Admit it.  She's flirting w/you 'cause you gave her the green light to do so.  Men...always blaming the women.   

[No regret]

WAIT. Those girls were sneaking out with you?  Arent' you married?  

You know, you're the flirt-er.  Admit it.  She's flirting w/you 'cause you gave her the green light to do so.  Men...always blaming the women.  

I deny ever giving them the green light, but I'll admit that i do stare and look at them at first when I saw them but it's not done on purpose or with intent to flirt with them...I only looked at them because I thought they were pretty or attractive, that's all I ever did and then they just take advantage of the situation from that point on.  I also was never the aggressor, it's usually them, they were always the ones to strike up the conversation or iniation with me.

by the way, I'm super single.

[yuknowthat]

... I have this distant relative guy, who wife's been giving me the look when ever we see each other at gatherings.  It's not an odinary casual look, it's the kind of flirty stare without taking her eyes away.  It makes me feel uncomfortable and not right, I would always be the one to looking away every time we happened to glanced at each other.  The last time him, me and his cousin were out cruising to buy some beers, she called my phone instead of his to asked where we are.  I was a little shocked and decided not to tell her husband about it.  I never gave her my cell number either....mayb e she called me instead, so I would tell the truth instead of calling him, not sure why.

To me, she cleary comes off like she wanted to flirt with me or is it just my imagination?

SAY HI! walk up and talk to her ..so that akwardness will be gone..

[moonangel]

I deny ever giving them the green light, but I'll admit that i do stare and look at them at first when I saw them but it's not done on purpose or with intent to flirt with them...I only looked at them because I thought they were pretty or attractive, that's all I ever did and then they just take advantage of the situation from that point on.  I also was never the aggressor, it's usually them, they were always the ones to strike up the conversation or iniation with me.

by the way, I'm super single.

This just confirms that you are the flirt-er.

I think you are up to something...ma ybe the goal is to take one of these married ladies as your own???  To prove that you can take a married lady from underneath her man?

[No regret]

This just confirms that you are the flirt-er.

I think you are up to something...ma ybe the goal is to take one of these married ladies as your own???  To prove that you can take a married lady from underneath her man?

....if my goal was that, I would have done it.