Love her, Marry you . . .

[PojNiamLubSiab]

How this topic came up is because my lil bro-in-law brought his girl home but BEFORE he did, he went down to MILW. to see his gf for the last time first. The only reason why he married the girl in town is bc she's pregnant. They once dated but broke up and were just seeing each other I guess but she got pregnant.

My question is mostly to the women. How would you feel knowing that your husband was with someone else and loved that person but only married you because you got pregnant? What would you do and how would you feel if you found this out years down the line?

I don't know how I would handle it but I'd feel disgusted. Especially if he went to see his girl for the last time and she knows about it. It would make me not wanna be with him bc she knows about it and that makes me lose sooooo much face, disgrace, and everything else. Every time she sees you guys, that's probably the thought that goes through her mind and you not knowingly thinks it's all because he loved you. Even though he may have at one point in time but it's as if you weren't his first choice, maybe not even a choice at all to begin with.

[PojNiamLubSiab]

Why is this woman asking so much when she got the man?  Would she feel better if he knocked her up and left her on the curb?

What does this woman want?

Are you referring to me when you ask "What does this woman want?" If not then ok if so then this situation is not about me but about my little brother in law who just brought his woman home yesterday. But if you are referring to his woman then idk if she knows. I am only asking because yes like HunnayDew said, it would be txaj txaj muag and plus even though a guy knocks up a girl doesn't mean he have to marry her. Sometimes they only want punani and not the girl, therefore even if she's knocked up that doesn't mean he should have to marry her and make both person suffer in a loveless, miserable marriage.

[PojNiamLubSiab]

I was no way in making reference to you in any particular fashion.  If you don't identify yourself with the character in your story, then you shoudn't be offended. 

If you post public information to share with the general viewers, we understand you are simply conveying the message to its public viewers.    We also understand that if a poster owns the posting, they will more than likely use their identity instead of making a story from a 3rd person point of refernce.  Now which is it?  Either you are or you aren't.  That wasn't even the point here.  The point is that, a comment was made in reference to the character of the story and not the poster. 

Learn to understand before making comments.

then why ask that woman a question when the woman herself probably doesn't even know of it? the woman doesn't even know that her new husband did it, so therefore how is she asking too much? I feel bad for her being the ones to know and she have no clue. And no i did not understand that's what questions are for. if you don't understand you ask. DUH! and there are some people who talk/ask in 3rd person form.

[PojNiamLubSiab]

Why did you think I was referring to you in the first place?  What gives?

Like i stated in my last post, the girl doesn't even know that he did what he did so when you asked, "Why is this woman asking so much when she got the man?" I thought that maybe you thought I was talking in 3rd person.

I'm not offended.

[evil-in-deed]

everyone always want to live in a korean drama life...

best way to wake them up is... dont give a fawk about it...

[LostInUrEyes_27]

everyone always want to live in a korean drama life...

best way to wake them up is... dont give a fawk about it...

 

[boO]

If I was the girl, in hindsight I will thank the girl who got pregnant by the boyfriend because she save me the trouble/hassle in the long run. The girl exposed the boyfriend's true character which was that he was unfaithful. Shame on me for being with a dishonest person.

Seriously who want to be married to a cheater? I don't.

Some guys need to keep their d i c ks in their pants.

[trippleX]

If both girls did not know about one another, than can't really blame them, yet there are girls out there who are scandalous. They just don't care if the dude is with someone, far or near. Just as long as she can get her claws on the dude, she's happy too, so ain't no surprise. Takes two to tangle.

[trippleX]

Primary example as to why girl should not sleep with boy b4 marriage. 

[8v10un30sun]

What some of you younger guys don't seem to understand is that woman are much more beguiling than you think.  If a woman sees a man and a woman wants that man, the easiest way to seal the deal is to have his child.  In these moment of weakness, the deal is sealed.    Haven't you've heard how a woman fu.cks a guy over?  Have his child, divorce him, make him pay for alimony and child support.  Dang!  That's how mekas people do it.  I bet Hmong woman from Laos will start doing this too.  More murder suicide if this start to happen. 

[yuknowthat]

How this topic came up is because my lil bro-in-law brought his girl home but BEFORE he did, he went down to MILW. to see his gf for the last time first. The only reason why he married the girl in town is bc she's pregnant. They once dated but broke up and were just seeing each other I guess but she got pregnant.

My question is mostly to the women. How would you feel knowing that your husband was with someone else and loved that person but only married you because you got pregnant? What would you do and how would you feel if you found this out years down the line?

I don't know how I would handle it but I'd feel disgusted. Especially if he went to see his girl for the last time and she knows about it. It would make me not wanna be with him bc she knows about it and that makes me lose sooooo much face, disgrace, and everything else. Every time she sees you guys, that's probably the thought that goes through her mind and you not knowingly thinks it's all because he loved you. Even though he may have at one point in time but it's as if you weren't his first choice, maybe not even a choice at all to begin with.

you'll never know ..maybe he still loves his ex more than the first gf....if he loves his new gf then he wouldn't be seeing his ex for whatsoever reason at all on and off..he probably just need the new gf for some emotional comfort from all the trouble he's going through with the ex....last but not least your lil in law there has some balls to take full responsibility for his own actions that's what counts.

[PojNiamLubSiab]

you'll never know ..maybe he still loves his ex more than the first gf....if he loves his new gf then he wouldn't be seeing his ex for whatsoever reason at all on and off..he probably just need the new gf for some emotional comfort from all the trouble he's going through with the ex....last but not least your lil in law there has some balls to take full responsibility for his own actions that's what counts.

i guess he was seeing the ex bc she's in town and was more convenient to get punani and maybe the ex still loved him since the new gf lived out of town.

[yubnag]

How this topic came up is because my lil bro-in-law brought his girl home but BEFORE he did, he went down to MILW. to see his gf for the last time first. The only reason why he married the girl in town is bc she's pregnant. They once dated but broke up and were just seeing each other I guess but she got pregnant.

My question is mostly to the women. How would you feel knowing that your husband was with someone else and loved that person but only married you because you got pregnant? What would you do and how would you feel if you found this out years down the line?

I don't know how I would handle it but I'd feel disgusted. Especially if he went to see his girl for the last time and she knows about it. It would make me not wanna be with him bc she knows about it and that makes me lose sooooo much face, disgrace, and everything else. Every time she sees you guys, that's probably the thought that goes through her mind and you not knowingly thinks it's all because he loved you. Even though he may have at one point in time but it's as if you weren't his first choice, maybe not even a choice at all to begin with.

I wouldn't have married him.

[GLoww]

Never marry a man because you are having his child, make sure you love him first before getting in bed with him or having his child.To solve all problem use a freakin condom idiots!!

[AOZ]

Women are fools to think any single man would b faithful before marriage... surely...every single men have at least two other women he is intimate with other than yourself....  in the end... he marry the one he wants the most