the past

[YAX]

I don't like to share my past because it may be effective to my emotions or afraid the current s/o will judge me based on my past. I usually like to leave the past alone, and not dwell on it. With that said, I don't like to ask about his past either unless he brings it up.

  Yah.. most guys don't wanna hear about a woman's sexual experimentatio ns with men before them.  Like Prince says...

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I guess I should've known by the way U parked your car sideways
That it wouldn't last
See, U're the kinda person that believes in makin' out once
Love 'em and leave 'em fast
I guess I must be dumb cuz U had a pocket full of horses
Trojan and some of them used
But it was Saturday night, I guess that makes it all right
And U say - "What have I got 2 lose?"

And honey, I say Little Red Corvette
Baby, U're much 2 fast (Oh)
Little Red Corvette
U need a love that's gonna last

I guess I should've closed my eyes when U drove me 2 the place
Where your horses run free
Cuz I felt a little ill when I saw all the pictures
Of the jockeys that were there before me
Believe it or not, I started 2 worry
I wondered if I had enough class
But it was Saturday night, I guess that makes it all right
And U say - "Baby, have U got enough gas?"
Oh yeah!

Little Red Corvette
Baby, U're much 2 fast (Yes U are)
Little Red Corvette
U need 2 find a love that's gonna last (Oh, oh)

A body like yours oughta be in jail
Cuz it's on the verge of bein' obscene
Move over, baby, gimme the keys
I'm gonna try 2 tame your little red love machine

Little Red Corvette
Baby, U're much 2 fast
Little Red Corvette
Need 2 find a love that's gonna last, hey hey

Little Red Corvette
Honey, U got 2 slow down (Got 2 slow down)
Little Red Corvette
Cuz if U don't, U're gonna run your little red corvette right in the ground
(Little Red Corvette)
Right down 2 the ground (Honey, U got 2 slow down)
U, U, U got 2 slow down
(Little Red Corvette)
U're movin' much 2 fast, 2 fast
Need 2 find a love that's gonna last!

Girl, U got an ass like I never seen, ow!
And the ride...
I say the ride is so smooth, U must be a limousine

Ow!
Baby, U're much 2 fast
Little Red Corvette
U need a love, U need a love that's, uh, that's gonna last
(Little Red Corvette)
Babe, U got 2 slow down (U got 2 slow down)
Little Red Corvette
Cuz if U don't, cuz if U don't
U're gonna run your body right into the ground (Right into the ground)
Right into the ground (Right into the ground)
Right into the ground (Right into the ground)

Little red corvette

[PojNiamLubSiab]

question is....why would one of his sisters call him out??

well his little sister is in her early teens. I'm sure she didn't do it on purpose and was probably an accident. The only reason why it got me thinking was because little kids tend to say things that they hear. I know they can't make up things on their own.

However, I did ask him. I asked him nicely a day after if it was true and he said no. I told him that I won't be mad whether it's true or not, but I just want him to be honest so we can build trust and also it's the past and I can't do anything about it (leave maybe =P) and his answer was still a no it wasn't true. I'm sure since it's been years since we've been married and she woulda been much younger, while he had girls before me visiting their house, she coulda mistaken them for being his girls at the same time as me. Who knows.

[No regret]

plain and simple, they don't like what's happened in their past and don't want to talk about it.

[Toua]

Take it or leave it. Plain and simple. U r still gonna be mad regardless if he tells u or not

[evil-in-deed]

aaaaahahahaha. .. he totally played you out...

now now now tell him you were twice as bad to him as he was(even if it was a lie)...

then what ever choices he makes now because of your story... those are your answers...

[Sweet_Tears]

Sometimes.. it's not because they have something to hide.. maybe she's just offended regarding the questions. Seriously, if someone accused me of something, I think I would get offended and PO too... but that's just  me.

[AOZ]

I agree with nmis... stop festering him...he'll share his past when he is ready...

[MilesDaddy]

true...but sometimes its better not to know.... unless it happened like yesterday....

agreed..Something are better off Need To Know

[Hmong Martial Artist]

When you ask your s/o about the past and they get angry or don't wanna tell you, does that necessarily mean they're hiding something or whatever you're asking may be true? Even though they get really upset and wants to know who told you but keep saying it's not true, does it mean it might be true therefore their defensive side comes out? Even if it's not true, wouldn't someone who haven't done/said it be calm and don't 'care and just say it's not true, it's up to u to believe it or not?

I personally think that if something's not true about me and if my s/o asks me, i'd just say what i posted up there and not go crazy trying to defend myself bc no matter what you say, other people will continue saying what they want.

He's cheating on you because your fat.  Accept it and move on.

NEXT!

[PojNiamLubSiab]

He's cheating on you because your fat.  Accept it and move on.

NEXT!

Damn, I didn't know 110lb at 5'2 was fat. I better start losing weight them =D

[evil-in-deed]

Damn, I didn't know 110lb at 5'2 was fat. I better start losing weight them =D

picture of that body or you lie...

hold a ph sign up too, you liar...

[Hmong Martial Artist]

Damn, I didn't know 110lb at 5'2 was fat. I better start losing weight them =D

You can stand to lose 10 lbs...and you're short.  Short women never age well!

[PojNiamLubSiab]

You can stand to lose 10 lbs...and you're short.  Short women never age well!

i've been stressed late. just weighed myself on my digital scale 2 days ago. I'm down to 103.8lbs. Not good, i want curves!!!!