No. Being romantic is doing something without wanting anything in return..and you're doing it because you love her.
Ass kissing is doing it because you want something in return.
If a man opens doors for you, sends you flowers and chocolate. Cooks you delicious meals, rubs your feet and writes you love letters, would you think he'd gain anything? There is a reason a man would go the length to do all that. Now tell me, if you give a man your heart is he not receiving something in return?
You're right, there is a difference between the two, but you haven't quite gotten your finger on it. I'll reveal what it is after I get a few more replies.
