would u rather ur family, friend n/or s/o tell u the truth n hurt ur feelings or lie to u n order to "protect" u?
ie: (family) u ask ur mom if she likes ur new bf/gf n she says yes when she really thinks they r downright ugly n rude! (friend) u ask ur friend if u look fat in that grey sweater n they tell u u look cute but really think u look like an elephant. (s/o) u ask if their x's kissed better than u n they tell u ur the best kisser but really u slobber like crazy n they gag almost every time bc u shove ur tongue down their throat!

yes, a bit exaggerated but u get the point. so....

which is it? or more like...can u handle the truth if it was given?