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Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« on: February 25, 2011, 02:38:49 PM »
Men, how do you love your brothers?  How do you show eachother love?   O0
 
Is your brother relationships really good or can be better?  How is the respect for eachother?

How about sharing a story that you and your brothers had.  Maybe a problem, a disagreement, appreciation of eachother, finding a hope together, fought a problem together...som ething that really made you see how wonderful it is to have a brother or something that made you realize you need to respect your brother more, wishing you could spend more time together, wishing you never had went against him/them, wishing you could had been a better brother...etc.

(This is not about being gay  :2funny:) LOL! :D



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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #1 on: February 25, 2011, 03:01:02 PM »
My brothers and I get along great.  Communication is open and candid, and we all praise each other for our success, and tackle the hurdles in life together.  We don't know any other way.  We, the brothers, always have an annual outing together without the ladies in our lives.  You need that.



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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #2 on: February 25, 2011, 03:02:10 PM »
Relationship is awesome.  No BS.  Stay Real.  (Throws up peace sign.)  <-- LOL.



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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #3 on: February 25, 2011, 04:18:43 PM »
by not kicking their arse all over the place... >:D



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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #4 on: February 25, 2011, 07:37:17 PM »
Brother love all day... Respect each other, look out for each other. And be there for one another.



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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #5 on: February 25, 2011, 08:43:22 PM »
My brothers and I get along great.  Communication is open and candid, and we all praise each other for our success, and tackle the hurdles in life together.  We don't know any other way.  We, the brothers, always have an annual outing together without the ladies in our lives.  You need that.

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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #6 on: February 26, 2011, 05:35:51 PM »
Men, how do you love your brothers?  How do you show eachother love?   O0
 
Is your brother relationships really good or can be better?  How is the respect for eachother?

(This is not about being gay  :2funny:) LOL! :D

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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #7 on: February 28, 2011, 11:23:34 AM »
i dry hump my brothers and slap they azzes when saying, "good game bro!"...and we ain't even playing sports



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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #8 on: February 28, 2011, 12:50:58 PM »
How about sharing a story that you and your brothers had.  Maybe a problem, a disagreement, appreciation of eachother, finding a hope together, fought a problem together...som ething that really made you see how wonderful it is to have a brother or something that made you realize you need to respect your brother more, wishing you could spend more time together, wishing you never had went against him/them, wishing you could had been a better brother...etc.



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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #9 on: March 03, 2011, 02:15:49 AM »
i let my siblings walk all over me when theyre around... because theyre always looking out for me...




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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #10 on: March 08, 2011, 04:20:51 PM »
I helped my brother through his living conditions during his last two years in college. He pretty much lived with me rent-free. I've never asked him to pay for rent nor help with any utilities. However, the only reason I moved up with him was because he told me he was counting on me that year. He didn't have a place to stay and did not fill out for a dorm or get an apartment.

I should have said NO and stayed back at home, but I wanted to help him out since he was thinking about taking a year off to stay at home and work to save up money. I've never felt like he appreciated me for what I did; moving up to a place I don't know and leaving all the bills for me to pay. I'd always thought he was going to help me back but he was more willing to take than to give. Sometimes as an older brother, I feel like I must do what his friends can not. Help him more than what he can do for me. It's only out of love that I do it because I don't think anyone else in this world would care about his education or his well-being than me, his older brother.

He's finished now, and is living back home. But for me, I'm still stuck here. Somewhere, I don't want to stay. Yet, I must make it through.

Thanks for sharing.  Besides you being the one helping your brother, has there ever been a time where he had helped you in anyway?  Such as giving you an advice that was random but actually made you thought a lot about and had changed you in a way?  Or did something for your parents with a good positive outcome that you never had imagined that he would do or even you would do?  Maybe though a situation, he did something good and they gave you the credit of a being a good brother? Etc.



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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #11 on: March 08, 2011, 04:23:07 PM »
i'm not as close to my older brother as I would like to....we get along fine....if we get inside a car together our conversation would be somthing like this

brother: so uhhh how's life man

me: kool, you?

brother: yeah, kool

---long pause

me: so you still working at the same place

brother: yeah

me: kool

---even longer pause........L OL other than that, i'm more close and confortable talking to my younger bro..but still we're very different in many ways.

If you were to try to be closer to your brother, what would you think you'd do?



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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #12 on: March 08, 2011, 04:31:23 PM »
My brothers and I get along great.  Communication is open and candid, and we all praise each other for our success, and tackle the hurdles in life together.  We don't know any other way.  We, the brothers, always have an annual outing together without the ladies in our lives.  You need that.

When you do an annual outing together, do you guys give out advice about how to handle the ladies sometimes?  Or maybe how to look at life in a different prespective or living condition in the future.  Maybe someone was having a difficult time and how did you manage to help them?  Maybe you were having a hard time and how did they manage to help you? 



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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #13 on: March 08, 2011, 04:33:39 PM »
Relationship is awesome.  No BS.  Stay Real.  (Throws up peace sign.)  <-- LOL.

If they gave you BS, what do you do?  Be realistic here.  You don't need to give out a full story unless you want, but it would be nice to here how you set them straight or maybe they set you straight...etc .



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Re: Men, how are you loving your brothers?
« Reply #14 on: March 08, 2011, 07:30:29 PM »
I have only one brother and he is the oldest while I'm the youngest.  He does a junk load for me.  When I'm with him I don't have to worry about anything.  Even though I got my own money, he still pays.  I go on trips for free and everything is paid for.  I got the keys to his house.  I can drive his cars if I wanted.  All my fishing poles are his.  We never fought once in our lives, he is a lot older than me.  Honestly, I think I have the best brother in the world.  I remember, I got into a fight at school and the first person I called was my big bro.  He came, picked me up, and didn't tell mom. 



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