Sorry...but if you eliminated the clubs, then you are out of luck. Clubs' number one intention is to be a place of meeting of other people, especially singles...besi de making the money and alcohol. You can tell alot from watching others..a good dancer is usually good in bed. A mellow/shy person would usually be in some dark corner just looking at people, an outgoing person is on floor, on the wall and sometimes on the ceiling, ballers and stars up in the VIP. you can find pretty much every type of people at the club and it is also the easiest place for a hook up. If you failed at the club...then go to funeral to find a ghost, go to wedding parties and groomnap somebody, go online to find an altered ego or go to church and pray..hopefull y, your God exists and send you an angel.