I bet some of y'all are good buddies with someone that you like or love that's in a relationship. Y'alls like, "s/he isn't right for him/her. We talk about a lot things. S/he tells me things that no one else knows. S/he should be with me". The only reason s/he talks to you is that you're picking up his/her mates slack. Yes you two make a great connection but that's it. My friend is in this situation with some girl. He is in love and I told his ass many times over that he is picking up the other guy's slack. He liked this girl for a long while now and hasn't bust out any game. Some people won't listen and you can't do anything till your friend is hurt and you say "I told your dumb ass to leave it alone, now lets go drink and see some titties"