My duty as a father is to take care of all my kids. . Every morning, I would wake up the two younger one, age 3 and 2, to go with me, and also when picking up my oldest daughter. Every night before 9PM, I would bathe them, dressed them...and cuddle the two younger one to bed. I often slept with my kids in another room. I dont care about my wife's need, she's an adult.
During the weekends, I would take them to the park, and family gathering and watch them carefully, meanwhile my wife just ate and socialized...
I, for one cannot understand how this couple can missed their own kid...