daytimer, I was once 20 years old and I've been there. When I look back on it, I do say to myself "what the heck did I ever see in that guy back then??" Majority of young girls are attracted to bling and materialistic things. If she's smart and got her head on right, then she'll still make time for a boyfriend or get to know guys, while her priority should be her education. Times are different now, you don't want to hop into the first car that pulls up in front of your parents' driveway either.
I don't have a problem with guys dating or marrying girls much younger than them. Just that I don't like the stereotype that older singles are too stuckup, infertile or white-washed. We all have our reasons for remaining single for so long too.
As you get older you can A) carry a bitter and cyncical attitude and push guys away or B) be appreciative of quality men and still put yourself out there to attract a good man.
Nobody know's much about me is because I keep to myself and I just don't want to come off as too desperate.