Npau Suav Txog Nws Dua...what does it mean this time?

[kmy]

Its been over a year since she's married. This morning I had a dream of holding her in my arms up in her bedroom. Her head laying on my shoulder like she's in pains & sorrows. Its the 2nd dream. 1st dream just seeing her somewhere. She wasn't my gf. I wasn't her bf, but she knows I love her a lot and willing to do anything for her. I go see her 2-3 times a week when she was still single. She is my uncle's daughter. Her mom didn't want me and her to date but my uncle didn't mind. I've taken her out b4. I've hug her b4 and its nothing like the previous girls I've hug. Its just that feeling that its "right".

The story behind it all. I really like her. She like me enough to say yes but its just her mom kept telling her no. So she went for another guy. For about 4 mos into their relationship, they got in trouble going out somewhere and got force married. She was crying for so long that day. About 2 mos after they got married I heard rumors from my mom's side family that their son in law wasn't as good as they expected. This son in law was her moms choice. Most of my mom side of the family knows that I like her a lot and they are saying that her mom should of have let her date me from the start. I got home from work one night and my dad just got finish talking with my uncle. My dad told me everything. I told my dad, No matter how much I love her now I can only love her as my sister. It was her moms choice so she will have to live with whatever issues on her path in life. After she got married every time she saw me at family events she's very shy to me & always try to hide away from my view. ALSO, exactly the day she got in trouble is the day I think to myself that I should go visit her and let it be the last visit(except family event, of course) bc of her mom and was going to tell her that I wont come anymore so be a good girl to her parents. IF i have gone visit her that day I would have save her from her trouble. Was planning to go see her at 1-2pm on a weekend & she got in trouble around 4pm. Besides, most of the elderly folks from both side of the family agrees that I should go for her too. This is the biggest thing in my life I regret on that I should have try harder.

She just got her first baby about 2 weeks ago....and this morning I had this dream. I wasn't sure what it meant so I ask my dad. My dad told me, "Maybe her husband is treating her bad & she's thinking about you". Could this be true? What do you guys think?    

[kmy]

Even if its true or not of what my dad says these two songs fit my mood & I would like to share with you guys.

This song makes me think of her being alone & hurt.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Rsqzb2MsN8

This song makes me think of her as she's in pains/sorrows and I can't be there to hold her.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JolSUzl_pfo&feature=related

[chuleej]

i heard it somewhere that if you dream of your ex it means they miss you and thinking about you...that's why be sure u always make a choice that wouldn't make u ponder upon the 'what if' question later in life.

[kmy]

I never dream about my ex-gf ever...but my uncles daughter? Its twice since she's married.

Nothing's more important then seeing her smile & enjoys her life with her husband. I hope only the best for her. I'm planning on a picnic this June for my parents B-day & I'll invited my uncle to invited his son-in-law to come too. whats kinda weird & suck is that his son in law has the same last name as me too so I can't really call him my bro-in-law & I can't really call him a brother too bc he married my uncle's daughter. Ohwell, as long as I invite them and everybody have a great time together.

(I shouldn't be saying this but I do have something inside me saying, "yog mus tsis zoo, ros los kuv tseem hlub koj mog")

[kmy]

^...I don't know. I feel like she's the only girl that every time I think about her being in pains/sorrow, I almost have tears that I can't reach out & help bc she's married. That just makes me love(care) for her more. I mean, I feel like I love her as much as if this pain/sorrows of hers is true, I don"t mind accepting her back along with her baby if she ever divorce. But since she's married there is a limit on how much I can love her. I know I have to stay behind the line. Seeing her in pains & sorrows hurts me. Just want to reach out and say, "its ok, I'm here"...sigh, sniff sniff.

Sigh, sometimes you just love some one so much that you can't do anything besides preying for the best of them in their life. Any little problem I heard from them makes me very worry about her since the marriage was forced.  

[ToxicCum]

damn, no offense man...but sh*t...u needa grow some balls bro...men dont go crying like this bro...this sh*t aint right yo....everyone hurts man...but this display of feminism from a dude is purely g*y....f*ck bro, u needa get out man....

follow the pimp theory yo:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ott6ODxvGUc

Let me just take you somewhere secret
Gonna cut all of the lights down dim
Forget all about your boy we gonna just flow it
What we felt let's share a few private thoughts
I'm not just, out for your sex
Let me simplify the things in life that you find complex
Forget what, you heard bout me 'cause you're a scarecrow groupie
But there's no pressure on you 'cause you know
What you must do check this out
Let's have a drink and I give you time to think
Let me puff this buddah blunt and cut on this porno buff
Girl come lounge here by my side, tonight your, my devil's bride
And there's a freak deep inside have no shame, no need to hide
Why do you keep on blushin? get it on
Like a slut she, she must be,
Kind of tipsy on this crystal like a gypsy
Now I got her on all fours
Bout to break down the headboard crash this broad
All through the wall now she howling like a dog, sweat poured
We hit the floor it don't quit, another one ripped
It's just another victim of lord infamous late night tip

(chorus)
I'm not the type that get involved in long relationships
Takin' trips, and buyin' gifts, I'm sorry I'm not on that tip
If you want romance you should just stick who you are really with
If you in that mood you can hit me on that late night tip (2x)

[dj paul]
I done seen some funny shit since I got in this game
They wants my crib they wants kids since I done got my fame
I never recall you askin your last boyfriend for nathin
But now the big bourban on gold got you aggravated

[gangsta boo] I need a coach bag
[dj paul] I can't be even doin' it
[gangsta boo] I need my hair done

[dj paul]
Me too I ain't got nothin' to do with it
I been through with it, you and it since the first time you asked
And might I add, players like me can't be savin' your ass

[gangsta boo]
I ain't with that nonsense, or that lovey-dovey mess
Feelin' kind of whorish I call and all I want is sex
Slip on victoria's secret, hit the liquor store before it close
Call chris so I can get something white to go up in my nose
Now I'm feelin' fine, nothin' but sex is on my mind
If you cannot please me boy, then please don't waste all of my time
Got you caught up in the mist
Mystic girl from triple six
Late night tip is all we have, it's time for trick that sick

(chorus 2x)

[juicy j]
I can't understand why these slobs be trippin'
Can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen
Ballin' in my lex dropped low to the ground
Just a young playa tryin' to put my bid in
Freaks want a trick that be constantly payin'
Not a ghetto thug that be constantly layin
Raymo inn on a summer motel,
Oh well that's what the juice might stay in
Gotta have a lady that wanna do what I do
Like skippin' work or love cuttin' high school
Summon all the players in the three 6 mafia
Camcorder on skinny dippin' in the swimmin' pool
Never try to argue, bother you, or fight
Kill a pack a jimmy hats strapped on real tight
Sippin' alize all tall, and a bud light
Just for you freaks on the moonlight late night

[koopsta knicca]
Tell me three 6 who be bumpin' that music
Hypnotizin' koop I tell you who I'm bout to lose it
Could it be that late night, groove type, just inside the body
Always kinda lonely someone want me hold me, I say
Come here, come here, come here the koopsta cryin' tears
I can't think positive when no one cares of how I feel
Realize my mind, sometimes that I even try to find
I cannot lie though I can ride high late night

[kmy]

damn, no offense man...but sh*t...u needa grow some balls bro...men dont go crying like this bro...this sh*t aint right yo....everyone hurts man...but this display of feminism from a dude is purely g*y....f*ck bro, u needa get out man....

No offense but you sound like a thug off the streets in the ghetto's. Yea, I know men not suppose to cry...but when its love from the heart there's nothing that can stop it from happening. Each person got their own time of loving someone else truly from the heart. Some at 16, some at 30's...etc. You sound like someone who would KILL me if I try to hit on you're girl. Instead of being a gentlemen with some balls and find out the truth first.

[VillainousHero]

kmy,

ToxicCum just doing his thang...seen some of his other replies. 

Crying can be viewed as simply emotional loss of control.  Most people only think crying is crying.  It's an emotion that's much further beyond what it's appears to be.

Anyway, it's goes that it depends on how much spiritual connection you have with your dreams.  One should never interpret dreams as face value.  If you see yourself with another woman who's become another man's woman, it sometimes only means that your love is a much more pure form of love.  However your conscious mind only interprets it in ways that you are able to comprehend based on experiences obtained.

It's may take a lot of time to let go of the love you have for someone, but look at it as being saved for the next person.  That's all that can be done at this point.  You can't save love for a person, waiting for them to hit the point of no return for you to be the shining knight to save damsel in distress.  This kind of romanticism just doesn't have much representation in times like these.  I don't think the heart can truly forget, but the mind can forget with time.

[GoldFishFighting]

i dream many things....i doubt they think of me...treeesss etch

[White Lotus]

I think that sometimes when I really want to see that person or miss that person dearly, I dream of that person.  According to studies, dreams occur when we think too much of something or the memories of the past.

So to me, I feel it has no meaning except that perhaps you might miss her and long for her absence.

[Ajax616]

Your dreams shows that you still have attachment issues regarding her, nothing more.  It doesn't mean that her husband is treating her bad or anything in the real world.  In your reality, she was taken from you before you had a chance to love her or even get over her.   I notice that sometimes I will dream about things that I think about a lot, and maybe your mind does reflect on her more than you're willing to admit.

If you haven't seen the movie 'Vanilla Sky', you should watch it.  It's about wanting something so much, because you haven't had it yet and circumstance changed preventing you from ever having it.

But in the end, you should fee yourself from your past, because it's moved on and will never come back again.  Hopefully one day, you will be thankful that you didn't end up with her, because you finally met the right one. 

[autumnbreeze]

Please move on! Worry more about your life than hers. She choose her own path, so now she has to live her own life. Sounds like you guys didn't really had a real relationship, so you shouldn't be so worry about her. Your love and concerns seem more like a brotherly love to me.

The important thing is for you not to be thinking about another man's wife and concentrate on moving on. I'm sure you will find someone A LOT better than her in the future. You don't want to miss out on a great person just because you couldn't get over your uncle's daughter.

[autumnbreeze]

Also, I don't think dreams mean anything. The OGs always said it means the other person is missing you and that's why you dream of them. I don't think it's true. I think it's because you miss her so much that your mind created those dreams. Dreams are dreams, nothing more, nothing less. Please don't be thinking that she is probably thinking of you. That's not right.

[arooswan]

imma 110% agreed w/ autumnbreeze


gotta move on she is already have  a husband  n a baby
thinking of other bro's wife is wrong
i say less hope u know more

[ladi-charm]

I agreed with what autumnbreeze is saying too.  She has chosen her own path from the start without knowing what's gonna happen later in life.  I know how you felt and how emotionally it is to think of her and make you cry.  You probably have been secretly thinking of her and worried too much about how her husband is treating her and than start having those kind of dreams. 

Yog tias koj tseem muaj lub siab hlub nws tom qab nws divorce from nws tus husband lawm los qhov ntawv nyob ntawm koj tus kheej.  Yog koj xav tias koj yauv ua lub neej tau nrog nws ces ua li koj lub siab ntshaw.  Yog koj worry thiab concern heev txog nws ces koj mas li hlub nws dua zaum ob kom kawg lub siab es so nws lub kua muag cia rau ntawv koj lub xub ntiag. 

Tiam sis yog tias nws tus husband tsis divorce nws es nkawv tseem yauv sib hlub ntxiv rau yav tom ntej thiab no ces hopefully you will understand to step aside your feelings and respect the fact that she is married to her husband.