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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #15 on: April 01, 2011, 07:15:01 PM »
Well she said she wanted to go and I should suggest a date and she'll ink me in if it works out.

Here actually quote through text..

"hey, i'm cool with hanging out some time, the problem will be--when? i got home from work today after 9 pm so as you can see weeknights are not good. there are some saturdays that i'll be free, we'll just have to plan it out so i can pencil you in--haha."
there's your BIG hint.  when a girl really likes  you... she don't need to PENCIL you in.   ;D ;)



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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #16 on: April 01, 2011, 07:37:55 PM »
there's your BIG hint.  when a girl really likes  you... she don't need to PENCIL you in.   ;D ;)

 there's too many "not sure when we'll get to hang out." Whether she likes him or not, this is definitely not a good sign.  He's not her priorty that's for sure.

Plus take "hang out" as a hint too.  That means no date, just hang out, which also mean I'm not interested in a date with you. :)


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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #17 on: April 02, 2011, 02:48:03 PM »
now if only u two didnt go to church... then your problems would be solved or never been created in the first place... lolz...




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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #18 on: April 04, 2011, 01:14:17 AM »
Well me and her finally have a date this Saturday. Goodness! Thanks everyone and my aggressiveness has paid off it seemed.  O0



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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #19 on: April 05, 2011, 05:54:39 PM »
its worth it if you really like each other.   give it a try and if it doesn't work out you can always just be friends.  don't give up before anything has even started yet.



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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #20 on: April 05, 2011, 07:29:04 PM »
Well me and her finally have a date this Saturday. Goodness! Thanks everyone and my aggressiveness has paid off it seemed.  O0

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Good job!...I knew you had it in you to be assertive.... O0

Have fun on your date with her...





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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #21 on: April 05, 2011, 09:08:09 PM »
Well me and her finally have a date this Saturday. Goodness! Thanks everyone and my aggressiveness has paid off it seemed.  O0

Yay!



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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #22 on: April 07, 2011, 09:12:33 PM »
Well me and her finally have a date this Saturday. Goodness! Thanks everyone and my aggressiveness has paid off it seemed.  O0
don't forget to update on how the DATE went!!  hehehe



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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #23 on: April 19, 2011, 07:47:50 PM »
I've liked this girl for a while and I finally asked her out and she said yes but the hard thing is that she's so busy so doesn't know when she'll be free. She works 9AM - 9PM nearly every weekday as a head nurse at a large hospital nearby but my job always leaves me busy during the weekends! *&^#!!!

She told me and I told her that we'll work something out but dang - finally found a girl that is interested but we can never meet! If you're wondering we go to the same church, so we meet Sundays but as for an actual date that's still difficult. She works pretty much most of the day at the church doing various things and I as well. I'm also a student so I'm also working on homework on Sunday evenings.

So...is this worth it? It's been awhile since I've asked anyone out because I'm a pretty picky guy, I really like this girl, but this sucks.  :-\
if u are really interested in her..work around her schedule for awhile , i'm pretty sure she'll work around yours too..maybe grabbing coffee here and there with you whenever she has the chance too..



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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #24 on: April 28, 2011, 04:08:47 PM »
when something like this happens, the first  thing that pops up in my head is, "Time is only available if you/they make time". Put some strong efforts into seeing/meeting her and see how it goes. If she can't spare her lunch time to have lunch with you or whatever, time to move on...... This chick use to stay up till like 12 midnight just to hang out with me for a bit (I use to get off at 11pm) knowing she's gotta get up at 6am for work.


****Glad you 2 got things going.... good luck



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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #25 on: May 03, 2011, 05:11:09 PM »
If she is head nurse and can't make time for you than she isn't all that interested. You'd think that since she was higher up in the chain of command, it wouldn't be very difficult for her to pencil you in.



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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #26 on: May 03, 2011, 10:22:50 PM »
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Re: Is it worth it?
« Reply #27 on: May 04, 2011, 03:07:00 AM »
How much freaken homework do you have that you can't spate a few hours on a Saturday afternoon for a date?

Make the damn time if you like her.

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