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Offline nkaujhaumsiab

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Dearest Doctor,
« on: March 28, 2011, 10:13:12 PM »
What do you advise for a lady who feels like she's worthless to her lover...

On top of that she is green with envy of his relatives where he shows much more interest and friendliness to them...


Why does it hurt when she hears that it's boring with just the two of them, can't even stay on the phone together for more than 4-5 minutes, when he says: "I've lost trust/faith in you" but still comes and borrows things from her?




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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #1 on: March 28, 2011, 10:21:32 PM »
First and foremost I will tell this lady to learn to love herself. By honoring her spirit she will develop self-esteem to realize that the treatment from that man is inappropriate. Also her worth and happiness is not dependent on a man. 


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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #2 on: March 29, 2011, 04:30:33 PM »
Dear bearer or unconditional news,
You shouldn't quit, keep trying to make him love you and one day maybe he'll turn around and finally realized why you were there for him all these times.
That day might be when hes 90 years old and already phucked your mind to the point where you're in a veggie state, but thats okay right because he finally loves you.



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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #3 on: March 29, 2011, 05:36:51 PM »
let me interpret this entire story into 3 words: you're getting used

well, if u feel like you are the type to be pushed around and used...stick around....
if u dont like that kind of treatment, prepare to leave and take the TEMPORARY suffering for a month...ull be fine and ready to roll in a month....might even lose a lil weight inbetween all this too!....(no offense, I have no clue if you're slim or thick, that was just for humor sake)



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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #4 on: March 30, 2011, 07:17:28 AM »
Quote from: ToxicCum on March 29, 2011, 05:36:51 PM
let me interpret this entire story into 3 words: you're getting used

well, if u feel like you are the type to be pushed around and used...stick around....
if u dont like that kind of treatment, prepare to leave and take the TEMPORARY suffering for a month...ull be fine and ready to roll in a month....might even lose a lil weight inbetween all this too!....(no offense, I have no clue if you're slim or thick, that was just for humor sake)
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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #5 on: March 30, 2011, 08:32:22 AM »
Quote from: boO on March 28, 2011, 10:21:32 PM
First and foremost I will tell this lady to learn to love herself. By honoring her spirit she will develop self-esteem to realize that the treatment from that man is inappropriate. Also her worth and happiness is not dependent on a man. 
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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #6 on: March 30, 2011, 08:33:06 AM »
Another thing... please grow a backbone!



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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #7 on: March 30, 2011, 09:09:41 AM »
Quote from: boO on March 28, 2011, 10:21:32 PM
First and foremost I will tell this lady to learn to love herself. By honoring her spirit she will develop self-esteem to realize that the treatment from that man is inappropriate. Also her worth and happiness is not dependent on a man. 

Quote from: 7890 on March 29, 2011, 02:27:49 PM
she should leave and find someone else. simple.

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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #8 on: March 30, 2011, 01:15:53 PM »
May I ask why he feels you are untrustworthy? :) Or why he has lost faith in you?

Here's my advice:

For one week, just don't contact him at all. Let him be the one to contact you.  If he still haven't in a week's time... good. :) This means you can move on, and you have survived the week without him.

For that week, please go volunteer at your local elderly home. :) Or a women shelter... :)

Good luck!



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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #9 on: March 30, 2011, 03:36:03 PM »
you're crazy over this guy? C'mon lady have some confidence.



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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #10 on: March 30, 2011, 06:15:51 PM »
OOps...I forgot to add one more thing...

His behavior towards you is not a reflection of who you are as a person. The reality is that he is just a insecure little boy who needs to belittle you to make himself feel better.




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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #11 on: April 02, 2011, 07:11:56 AM »
kick him in the groin and run the other way and never go back either. that'll leave a lasting impression on him.



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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #12 on: April 02, 2011, 02:38:26 PM »
if his relatives are that entertaining.. . then drop him and get with one of his relatives...

show him that he was right after all... guys like to be right... lolz...

or else just start hanging out with his relatives without him...



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Re: Dearest Doctor,
« Reply #13 on: April 05, 2011, 05:55:46 PM »
maybe she doesn't know it but she's just  a friend with benefits.  sounds like it to me.



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