I've noticed that wherever the Hmong ended up, they will eventually re-migrate to reunite with their relatives. Say, if some family got sponsored by an American family in New York, that family would soon relocate to MN or Cal or WI to be with their relatives.
But I wonder how the first families were feeling when there were no other families to run to.
Yep. Hmong went wherever their sponsors lived and then when they found the rest of their relatives they remigrate to join their families. My dad has an older sister who her husband and his family went to Texas first in '78 before they found the rest of his relatives in the Central Valley of California in the mid 80s. Hmong people have always done things with their hands to make a living too, by farming, crafting, so a lot of Hmong settled or relocated to the San Joaquin Valley to farm. Those that knew how to use their minds or got themselves educated, "paub ua business, ua laj ua luam" moved out of the farming life and out to other states to find 9-5 jobs.
I remember grandma telling stories and of my mom's brothers when they first arrived in Montana. That it was sad and strange at first. It was too cold during some months. Their sponsors ate different foods, like bread and peanut butter. They wanted to kill a pig or pick leafy greens but couldn't communicate with them because of the language barrier. My grandma said that a lot of the elderly aunts were sad, staring out the window while making paj ntaub, crying, sad that they left some of their family behind or that some of them went missing.
I imagine the transition not easy for a lot of the first Hmong families.
The Hmong immigrants who came in the 90s and in the 2003-2005 had it easier than the first Hmong people who came back in the late 70s, early 80s.