Dear Dr. Pebhmong, avoiding infeldelity

[Hmongol]

Dear Dr.
       Everytime the girlfriend and I get into a heated argument. I usually end up escapeing to video games after the fight in order to breathe, but the girlfriend gets even more mad because of this. Now I understand that I could do something else in order to cool me down like : jogging, working out or hitting the bar, but most of these things can give me a chance to cheat and I'm no cheater, but at times like these my mind is almost acceptable to all things.

Don't give me an advice to talk it out with her because that never works(trust me, a woman only wants to hear what they want and a man is always wrong). If I can't do this then I'm afraid the situation could be dire.

[Rockstargenes]

Dear Dr.
       Everytime the girlfriend and I get into a heated argument. I usually end up escapeing to video games after the fight in order to breathe, but the girlfriend gets even more mad because of this. Now I understand that I could do something else in order to cool me down like : jogging, working out or hitting the bar, but most of these things can give me a chance to cheat and I'm no cheater, but at times like these my mind is almost acceptable to all things.

Don't give me an advice to talk it out with her because that never works(trust me, a woman only wants to hear what they want and a man is always wrong). If I can't do this then I'm afraid the situation could be dire.

there aint nothing you can do but Play games.  Instead of video Games play mind game with her!!! 

[kysk]

i am not sure why your gf would be mad at you for playing games... the only reason why i think why she is getting mad is because she wants more attention from you.. when women are angry, they want some sort of settlement then just to leave the terms the way they are... so by you "escaping" to your video games, its almost as if you are ignoring her.. and i am sorry to say this to you hmongol, but most women have this type of anger issue.. So my best bet is just to sit there and listen. my bf and i have been in the same situation as you before, but the only difference is, we both have our own little escape (he plays games while i lay in bed and think). All in all, it works out. In your case, she just wants the attention (whether you are right or wrong). She needs to blow off that steam..

[Hmongol]

i am not sure why your gf would be mad at you for playing games... the only reason why i think why she is getting mad is because she wants more attention from you.. when women are angry, they want some sort of settlement then just to leave the terms the way they are... so by you "escaping" to your video games, its almost as if you are ignoring her.. and i am sorry to say this to you hmongol, but most women have this type of anger issue.. So my best bet is just to sit there and listen. my bf and i have been in the same situation as you before, but the only difference is, we both have our own little escape (he plays games while i lay in bed and think). All in all, it works out. In your case, she just wants the attention (whether you are right or wrong). She needs to blow off that steam..

Well... you see if I stay I could end up in jail as you can see she might end up with a black eye. Its my way of breathing and I'm no wife beater but sometimes a woman can take it way too far.

[YAX]

If she's just a girlfriend.  You should try to other girls out to see if they'r a better fit. 

[yuknowthat]

just agree with the woman and everything will be back to normal...it's one of those bipolar issues..

[evil-in-deed]

play her game right back at her and see how she handles it...

the way she respond back should be fine if you do it too...

if its a fair and even relationship.. .

if not(which it never is with women)... then... errr... dr ph will bail you out of jail...

 

[sxiong]

Just strip naked in front of her while she is yelling. Do some jumping jacks. 

Works everytime.

[saki saki]

Dude,
Why are you so lame, my Asain brothers.
It's a GF, It's easier to get away and hide. Unlike a wife..... Now you have to sit your butt there and hear her rantz. Weather she's wrong or right you have to scum to her BS... Or you're going  to go  meet the FOLDING FIST AND TIGER CLAW...LOL ....And you can't do nothing but scream like a little sissy LMFAO..

[foromosa]

just agree with the woman and everything will be back to normal...it's one of those bipolar issues..

Are you sure about that? It might piss her off even more. 

[saki saki]

Are you sure about that? It might piss her off even more. 

Women like it when we guys, say yes you are right.. I'm wrong.. Even thou they are totally wrong.. We just have to agree with them.. Otherwise we gotta go sleep on the sofa..LOL

[Toua]

If she's just a girlfriend.  You should try to other girls out to see if they'r a better fit. 

best answer so far 

[DeceiversChick]

You two have bad communication.

When you're both are pissed off go do your own thing and once everything is all cooled down come back and talk about the issue. When you're talking talk about your feelings and how you will both fix the problem. Don't avoid the problem!

[saki saki]

When woman are piss at you.... Just go and have sax with her. Than everything gonna be a okay lol.

[NceegVaj]

Dear Dr.
       Everytime the girlfriend and I get into a heated argument. I usually end up escapeing to video games after the fight in order to breathe, but the girlfriend gets even more mad because of this. Now I understand that I could do something else in order to cool me down like : jogging, working out or hitting the bar, but most of these things can give me a chance to cheat and I'm no cheater, but at times like these my mind is almost acceptable to all things.

Don't give me an advice to talk it out with her because that never works(trust me, a woman only wants to hear what they want and a man is always wrong). If I can't do this then I'm afraid the situation could be dire.

Come to me, baby!