How would you deal with such a friend?

[54321]

if you have a loser friend, who's simply an alcholic, lazy, refused to work or find work, ended up being a bum and have no home or place to stay.  Would you still be with him and hanging out with him and spend money on him?

[54321]

If you have a friend like that and you still put up with him/her even after realizing how he/she is then you're actually the loser.

I have a friend like that, he's not close, just a friend.  I don't want to assocaite myself with him anymore, so I tend to avoid or ignored him when ever I see him in public.  Because of that, I think he's very against me now and tries to avoid me also...like I care.

Not that I'm disrespecting him now that's he's a bum, but becuase he's a person who doesn't want to help himself.

[54321]

why would you do this? seriously?

He's hungry and he asked for food money or to treat him to a restaurant.  I never did, that's why I'm trying to avoid him everytime I see him.  He was never a generous person, he shouldn't be asking for others to treat him or buy food for him.

[evil-in-deed]

you wait until he has money(be sure you know he does) and then you demand him to buy you something to eat... disregard any reason he has to deny your hunger...

if he lies... then ask to see his wallet...

[sinny]

i filter my friends, so i don't have folks like that in my life.