depends...
is your uncle the one thats blood related or is it your aunt?... because that matters...
anyways... i dont buy your story...
however... if youre in love... then give it a shot... everyone knows that love conquers all... yes, even death... even death my dear child... even death...
love is the greatest joy in life... no matter where it comes from...

so dont listen to people who dont want you to be happy in life...