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*** I don't know if i should be sad about this))))))
« on: June 26, 2011, 08:01:44 PM »
but you know them females of your past like 8 to 10 years ago when you had a thing with them.   You see them again and they are now holding 3 kids and possible married or divorcee statistics.. 

I just don't know if I should be happy for them or sad for myself....

thank you facebook, you spill the truth.   LOL




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« Reply #1 on: June 26, 2011, 08:49:04 PM »
Wait, I don't get it? Should you be happy that they have 3 kids, are either married or divorced? Or sad that you could have had 3 kids now and be married or divorced? If she's divorced, you shouldn't be sad for yourself at all. In fact, I think you should be grateful you got away. I always say things happen for a reason and although it's human to ponder about the past, be grateful for what you have now.



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« Reply #2 on: June 26, 2011, 09:12:47 PM »
I'm back! Got dishes put away and the table cleared. So what's your facebook Tyrese? Even if I won't like you or match you, I will find girls that you will like and will match you instead. When I come pay my grammy a visit, we will come rendevouz with you in Cali in 6 months. You still scurrrrred?



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Re: *** I don't know if i should be sad about this))))))
« Reply #3 on: June 26, 2011, 09:16:38 PM »
Wait, I don't get it? Should you be happy that they have 3 kids, are either married or divorced? Or sad that you could have had 3 kids now and be married or divorced? If she's divorced, you shouldn't be sad for yourself at all. In fact, I think you should be grateful you got away. I always say things happen for a reason and although it's human to ponder about the past, be grateful for what you have now.

I should be happy that they are not in the same class as I am after 10 years later, I'm not married with no kids.  However, I am sad to see them again after all them missing years.  They are stuck with children, the husband is never mentioned in their updated stories and they want to be friends. 

It is like a pound for a pound and a match for a match.  They are expecting me to have children by now or at least I'm married but when I accidentally sees them again, I still carry that same vibe that got them to me in the first place.  In other words, I'm exactly the way I am 10 years ago and they are playing house.

I kid you not.  If you do not marry them, don't expect them to wait for you.  They are going to move on with their life and one must be ready to accept the reality of life or one will be confused hence this thread. 

I don't know if i should be happy for them or sadden to how the story crumbles..... 

now if I see them again and they are the same like I am, 10 years ago in both of our eyes, I wouldn't be confuse like this...



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« Reply #4 on: June 26, 2011, 09:34:41 PM »
I should be happy that they are not in the same class as I am after 10 years later, I'm not married with no kids.  However, I am sad to see them again after all them missing years.  They are stuck with children, the husband is never mentioned in their updated stories and they want to be friends.  

It is like a pound for a pound and a match for a match.  They are expecting me to have children by now or at least I'm married but when I accidentally sees them again, I still carry that same vibe that got them to me in the first place.  In other words, I'm exactly the way I am 10 years ago and they are playing house.

I kid you not.  If you do not marry them, don't expect them to wait for you.  They are going to move on with their life and one must be ready to accept the reality of life or one will be confused hence this thread.  

I don't know if i should be happy for them or sadden to how the story crumbles.....  

now if I see them again and they are the same like I am, 10 years ago in both of our eyes, I wouldn't be confuse like this...

I think you will be the type of single guy with a heart big enough to love a divorced chick with kids. There are single guys out there that have a thing for divorced chicks. And my props to them only. I have some divorced cousins and they are already remarried while I never even made it to my first yet. What does that say about them and me? I'm the loser here. Because I'm still waiting for my ship to come in.

It actually warms my heart and makes me smile when I see a guy I use to talk to with a wife and kids. And then some who got old and ugly as hell, got divorced, and that I have to thank God that they dissed me and married someone else instead.  ;D



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« Reply #5 on: June 26, 2011, 09:39:49 PM »
I think you will be the type of single guy with a heart big enough to love a divorced chick with kids. There are single guys out there that have a thing for divorced chicks. And my props to them only. I have some divorced cousins and they are already remarried while I never even made it to my first yet. What does that say about them and me? I'm the loser here. Because I'm still waiting for my ship to come in.

It actually warms my heart and makes me smile when I see a guy I use to talk to with a wife and kids. And then some who got old and ugly as hell, got divorced, and that I have to thank God that they dissed me and married someone else instead.  ;D

There are also guys out there who only wants someone who's never been married! I have guy friends who plays with divorced women but tells me they won't married them. :(



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« Reply #6 on: June 26, 2011, 09:49:42 PM »
There are also guys out there who only wants someone who's never been married! I have guy friends who plays with divorced women but tells me they won't married them. :(

Guys like that are straight up a-holes and douches only, and women users. No wonder some women are so reluctant into allowing anybody in. Being why women needs to know how to read a man's intentions and do not always be so needy. Guys love using and getting with ditsy and vulnerable chicks, she does not need to be a hardass or put up a tough front all the time either, but if you can handle yourself and not be the one that gets handled instead, a man will respect you. If you carry yourself well and is a grounded, and good person, no matter what your marital status is, you will be respected and can find someone decent to love you back.



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Re: *** I don't know if i should be sad about this))))))
« Reply #7 on: June 27, 2011, 09:23:42 PM »
Man, I was thinking the same thing. But I was thinking: damn after 10 years and he's still living at home driving his mom's van.

My friend told me he asked about me recently. Thank you God he cheated on me so our relationship can come to an end.


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Re: *** I don't know if i should be sad about this))))))
« Reply #8 on: June 28, 2011, 01:14:37 PM »
Just say hi and bye.
And worry about yourself cause once you go your own way, you two are right back at not seeing each other for a while if ever again.



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Re: *** I don't know if i should be sad about this))))))
« Reply #9 on: July 01, 2011, 03:53:28 PM »
I dont bother to wonder...but they've been trying to friend me on them social networks. I just hit ignore. No need to go into the past.



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Re: *** I don't know if i should be sad about this))))))
« Reply #10 on: July 01, 2011, 10:52:42 PM »
I think you will be the type of single guy with a heart big enough to love a divorced chick with kids. There are single guys out there that have a thing for divorced chicks. And my props to them only. I have some divorced cousins and they are already remarried while I never even made it to my first yet. What does that say about them and me? I'm the loser here. Because I'm still waiting for my ship to come in.

It actually warms my heart and makes me smile when I see a guy I use to talk to with a wife and kids. And then some who got old and ugly as hell, got divorced, and that I have to thank God that they dissed me and married someone else instead.  ;D

OH COME ON JUBI....YOU ARE TOO CUTE TO BE IN THAT POSITION ;)



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« Reply #11 on: July 02, 2011, 01:12:11 AM »
OH COME ON JUBI....YOU ARE TOO CUTE TO BE IN THAT POSITION ;)

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