Wait, I don't get it? Should you be happy that they have 3 kids, are either married or divorced? Or sad that you could have had 3 kids now and be married or divorced? If she's divorced, you shouldn't be sad for yourself at all. In fact, I think you should be grateful you got away. I always say things happen for a reason and although it's human to ponder about the past, be grateful for what you have now.
I should be happy that they are not in the same class as I am after 10 years later, I'm not married with no kids. However, I am sad to see them again after all them missing years. They are stuck with children, the husband is never mentioned in their updated stories and they want to be friends.
It is like a pound for a pound and a match for a match. They are expecting me to have children by now or at least I'm married but when I accidentally sees them again, I still carry that same vibe that got them to me in the first place. In other words, I'm exactly the way I am 10 years ago and they are playing house.
I kid you not. If you do not marry them, don't expect them to wait for you. They are going to move on with their life and one must be ready to accept the reality of life or one will be confused hence this thread.
I don't know if i should be happy for them or sadden to how the story crumbles.....
now if I see them again and they are the same like I am, 10 years ago in both of our eyes, I wouldn't be confuse like this...