Healing is a choice..

[azndoll]

Been reading this book that I can relate too called "Healing is a Choice"...
3 facts about what I learned from this book & that time doesnt heal.

But the three main things was to realize:

1. I am a person as well
2. I deserve better
3. Pretend that they were dead.

And number 3 which I didnt take from the book was to pretend they were dead. Dead, because in my opinion, someone who's dead doesn't hurt me as much as someone who is still alive and doesnt want me.

One of the greatest pains to suffer in life is not being desired by someone whom you loved so much.

[DINAN]

Wow powerful readings

[prima_donna]

Outta sight and outta mind.  Haha.. Thats how I like to think of it. People breakup all the time. My first heartbreak I thought I was never guna see the light. I became insommia and dropped alot of weight due to stress. Looking back.. it look easy now. Im happy I was able to move on and found something better.   

[thePoster]

Not trying to be mean but it's time for you to get over your little problems.  Gee whiz.  It's been a while now and still crying over the same ole spilled milk.

[azndoll]

thePoster i'm not Cryin over old spilled milk. It was just a book i read and thought i'd share. I wouldn't want to go back and settle for less. That previous person isn't worth my time and effort anymore i'm coping it day by day.. Cuz at the end at least i kno i did something out of my life while he's out thinkin with his Penis. Life goes on. Everyone and myself know i deserve better. But its just a book thought i'd share.

[azndoll]

forgot to add what goes around comes around and will come back to him.

[primetime]

If you found love once, you can find it again.

[autumnbreeze]

I like this post. I want to read the book. 

[DeceiversChick]

u should read The art of Happiness by Dalai Lama. Great read!

[yes]

I'll be putting both of those books on my llist. Thanks =)

[munchausen]

One of the greatest pains to suffer in life is not being desired by someone whom you loved so much.[/b][/i]

are you fuccking kidding? you live in a bubble. trade places with him. maybe you'll see what real pain is.

Not trying to be mean but it's time for you to get over your little problems.  Gee whiz.  It's been a while now and still crying over the same ole spilled milk.

this.

[azndoll]

are you fuccking kidding? you live in a bubble. trade places with him. maybe you'll see what real pain is.
 Uh live in my shoe to know how i'm going through and what ppl do to you to hurt you.. 

[munchausen]

 Uh live in my shoe to know how i'm going through and what ppl do to you to hurt you.. 

no thanks. that would mean that i would be too ignorant and stupid to understand that i don't need a book to tell me how to feel or move on. nor do i have to be so delusional that i need to start pretending that those who hurt me are dead so i can pretend i'm moving forward with me life.

[the_almighty]

Whatever your situation is, just remember that it too will pass.  You don't need to seek comfort or enlightment in a book.  Just know that there have been many before you and there will be many after you.  The best kind of comfort is living.  Don't isolate yourself by spending countless hours indoors reading a book.  Get out there and live like theres no tomorrow, because there may not be.  If you do this, you'll realize that you were sulking over trivial matters in life.  It's the big picture that matters, not a momentary glimpse of the corner.             

[Gemini]

Love and time will heal a broken heart.