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Re: Disapproved relationship
« Reply #30 on: August 23, 2011, 06:59:51 PM »
Make dat mistake once betta listen to ur family half da tyme they'er rite.



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Re: Disapproved relationship
« Reply #31 on: August 23, 2011, 08:23:48 PM »
I consider what my family says about him but I also listen to my heart.

My parents were hard on us, especially my dad, but in the end we hung on and they've accepted him. We've been together a very long time and like I tell my dad, would you rather have me try and search for the right one and weed through them  or isnt it better that I've stuck with one guy all these years? Less names for him to remember.  ;D JK.



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Re: Disapproved relationship
« Reply #32 on: August 31, 2011, 11:23:51 AM »
What would you do if you are dating someone that your family disapproved? Would you continue dating that person because afterall, it's your choice or would you take your family advices and leave him?

Well, if my judgement is poor, I'll definitely listen to my parents.



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Re: Disapproved relationship
« Reply #33 on: August 31, 2011, 12:48:27 PM »
90% of the time, family members are only looking out for you, but that doesn't neccessarily mean that their advice is foolproof.

Sometimes its obvious like physical confrontations, infidelity, "insert obvious reasons why you shouldn't be with that person but you are too stupid to realize it".  And there are times that your family is making a decision to benefit themselves moreso than you like...don't date non-hmong people, he/she is poor, marry him/her because he/she is rich, etc...

Although I would like to say that people are rational, when it comes to love even the smartest person can be a fool.



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Re: Disapproved relationship
« Reply #34 on: September 01, 2011, 08:43:01 AM »
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Anyhow...if you are a "my way", "self-serve", "independent", "live only today", "Fukkk all" -- then there's no point to the discussion.

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Re: Disapproved relationship
« Reply #35 on: September 01, 2011, 11:30:23 PM »
I always thought my parents were wrong, dont know me, dont know what i want, until I got married that i realize they were right.  :'(



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Re: Disapproved relationship
« Reply #36 on: September 02, 2011, 11:28:45 AM »
I always thought my parents were wrong, dont know me, dont know what i want, until I got married that i realize they were right.  :'(

Sometimes.. it takes a mistake for us to realize that they are right all along.



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Re: Disapproved relationship
« Reply #37 on: September 02, 2011, 03:13:08 PM »
bad omen. A relationship is not good when you are already cursed by your love ones before you get marry.



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Re: Disapproved relationship
« Reply #38 on: September 03, 2011, 02:15:53 AM »
What would you do if you are dating someone that your family disapproved? Would you continue dating that person because afterall, it's your choice or would you take your family advices and leave him?

I say take it into consideration what your family is saying... guys come and go... family are forever...



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Re: Disapproved relationship
« Reply #39 on: September 08, 2011, 05:39:05 AM »
What would you do if you are dating someone that your family disapproved? Would you continue dating that person because afterall, it's your choice or would you take your family advices and leave him?

If you are in this situation, you are not alone. There are many who share secretly share your struggles, pains, and frustrations. Listen to all parties and filter in the nonbias facts. Consider those nonbias facts and follow your heart. The most important thing is do what makes you happy and that which you won't regret later.



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