Oh fukk!

[No regret]

...what do you do, if an ex tries to contact you again?  I think I made a mistake by replying to her emails that i'm still her lover, shoot!

[primetime]

What's another step of meeting up then.

[Peachy Fish]

Call her up if you still harbor feelings for her.

[No regret]

I wish she just never contact me again, because there's still some attachment there and the heart can't really deny it.

Why she have to contact me again.

[Peachy Fish]

I wish she just never contact me again, because there's still some attachment there and the heart can't really deny it.

Why she have to contact me again.

Oh...tell her you want to move on, and you were drunk when you emailed her. lol

[No regret]

Oh...tell her you want to move on, and you were drunk when you emailed her. lol

That's kind a harsh, i just wish she never contacted me, since it's been over a year already.  No more replies to her, i'm gonna take some time to think things over.

[Peachy Fish]

That's kind a harsh, i just wish she never contacted me, since it's been over a year already.  No more replies to her, i'm gonna take some time to think things over.

Hey, you said you wish she never contacted you again. You cannot have it both ways and be fine w/it. You either accept her calls and emails or tell her you want to move on and actually do move on.

[primetime]

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[woofwoof]

She trying to tell you that yous nothing but a loser and she have found a better and bigger d1ck.

[azndoll]

Haha at peachy fish. Your funny.

[No regret]

Hey, you said you wish she never contacted you again. You cannot have it both ways and be fine w/it. You either accept her calls and emails or tell her you want to move on and actually do move on.

We were pretty serious, we even talked about marriage, but things didn't happened, then we never really end it, we just decided to stop contacting and seeing each other.  It's been over a year now....I thought it's history but now she contacted me again.  I can't just say good bye, cuz there's still a little fire burning inside of me.

[No regret]

 one year is a long while.....you have to asked if she's been dating or seeing other guys during that period...if she did, you're just a rebound...LOL

j/k man...do wha tyou gotta do...just dont be stupid...haha

No, you are right, you have a good point.  I could just be a rebound, or a fall back cuz things didn't work for her with other guys.

[autumnbreeze]

awww....my ex did that to me too. we broke up a year and then he contacted me again. i don' t know what his intentions were for calling me back...and so i gave in to him and talked to him. things didn't worked out and he left me again this time. now that i look back, he only came back to me because he's lonely and needed someone to talk to..and i was the person that he trusted and who knew him more where he felt more comfortable with me. i was his comfort zone and that's why he came back.

my advice to you is, if you don't love her like before anymore, if you have no intentions of getting back together with her anymore, if you don't see yourself with her in the future, then don't give in to the temptation. don't respond to her emails. don't contact her. just ignore her completely. sure, this may be harsh and cruel, but you're only doing this for your and hers sakes. she's probably vulnerable right now and you were her comfort zone so that's why she's coming back to you, but don't give in. eventually, it will be better for you both.

[No regret]

awww....my ex did that to me too. we broke up a year and then he contacted me again. i don' t know what his intentions were for calling me back...and so i gave in to him and talked to him. things didn't worked out and he left me again this time. now that i look back, he only came back to me because he's lonely and needed someone to talk to..and i was the person that he trusted and who knew him more where he felt more comfortable with me. i was his comfort zone and that's why he came back.

my advice to you is, if you don't love her like before anymore, if you have no intentions of getting back together with her anymore, if you don't see yourself with her in the future, then don't give in to the temptation. don't respond to her emails. don't contact her. just ignore her completely. sure, this may be harsh and cruel, but you're only doing this for your and hers sakes. she's probably vulnerable right now and you were her comfort zone so that's why she's coming back to you, but don't give in. eventually, it will be better for you both.

good advice.   besides, i've actually already moved on.

[Moospej]

Bros, don't be so cold about it. She was once loved my you and thinking of having a future with you. Just b/c thing didn't workout between the two of you don't mean that you cannot be there for her. The least you could for her after a year is is to set your boundary and show her what she still mean to you even as a friend.