Backstabbing Friends

[Sweet_Tears]

If your really good friend or best friend cheat with your s/o behind your back. Do you think you'll ever able to repair that friendship? I would never date or cheat on my best friend's s/o but it happened to me a long time ago.

[JustMe2]

i don't know if they cheated or not....but when he came looking for me at my friend's house i didn't expect my other friend to go out in her night gown and watch the sun rise with him because she didn't want him to be cold and alone outside.

needless to say our relationship is no longer there 

[woofwoof]

It serve you people well for having good friends around your gf/bf.  My father always tells me, the one person who can kill you is your best friend.  Why, bc they know all about you, your weak and strong points.  I guess thats why I never really have good friends.  My good friends is my family.   

[Sweet_Tears]

It did stop me from having any friends for a very long time. I had problem trusting. It wasn't until 2004 when I met my best friend. I learned to trust again and open up. I guess it depends on what kind of friend you have too. Now, I just think that I can't control what happens behind my back. If it does happen, let it be so but I will not be friend nor try to repair that friendship with that person. I was young and naive back then so I accepted her apology but we've never been able to look at eachother the same way.

[Sweet_Tears]

so are you saying you cheated with your friend's s/o...or your friend cheated on you with your someone? haha just a little confuse here.

but as for me...Nope..I know better....but I did have a friend who was very jealous everytime I was getting close with a girl...We were young, so the minute he said he likes her too, being the stupid Hmong guys we were, when a friend says that before you, you let them have it...although she didn't like him....I never got in touch with her again...she must hate me..hahah

so yup, choose your friends wisely....

I did said that my best friend cheating with my s/o. LOL

[Lady_Fallin]

Hell no. Both of them are out of my life for better.



When you get burn already, don't play with fire.  Go swim.

[DeceiversChick]

Thank goodness it will never happen to me cause 1) i'm never attracted to my best friends man and 2) My friend has a different taste in men than myself.

our path of the same men will never cross. Even if it did we'll only comment that he's good looking but never cross that line.

[Lady_Fallin]

It did stop me from having any friends for a very long time. I had problem trusting. It wasn't until 2004 when I met my best friend. I learned to trust again and open up. I guess it depends on what kind of friend you have too. Now, I just think that I can't control what happens behind my back. If it does happen, let it be so but I will not be friend nor try to repair that friendship with that person. I was young and naive back then so I accepted her apology but we've never been able to look at eachother the same way.

I feel for you.  True friends are so hard to come by... *sigh

[Sweet_Tears]

I feel for you.  True friends are so hard to come by... *sigh

They are and for a while, I hated all the people with her last name. I was so upset and shocked! But I learned from my mistake and like what they always said "What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger". I overcame the trust issue and found new ways to make friends again. But from that day on, I choose my friends very carefully though. And so far, the friends that I have only back me up, they do not go beyond me nor disrespect me. 

[No regret]

That's as bad as stealing money or things from you, ... kick to the curb for good.

[obscurity]

If your really good friend or best friend cheat with your s/o behind your back. Do you think you'll ever able to repair that friendship? I would never date or cheat on my best friend's s/o but it happened to me a long time ago.

they never backstab you because they never were a real friend to begin with

[Sweet_Tears]

they never backstab you because they never were a real friend to begin with

But at the time, she should acted like one. I mean.. we shared clothes, went to eat, went shopping, and talk everday. hehe

[yes]

Effin no. Throwing both of them to the curbs quicker than you can say "it!"

[obscurity]

But at the time, she should acted like one. I mean.. we shared clothes, went to eat, went shopping, and talk everday. hehe

so she was using you

[Sweet_Tears]

so she was using you

YES! and I fell for it. She was using me to get close to my ex. Damn.. That was the first time I learned how cruel women can be when they want something.