We all have encountered people like that, even friends or coworkers backstabbing you just so they can take the credit for something or take the top spot in a job. It hurts, especially when you trusted them too. It hurts even more when it was a family member that does that to you. In your heart you will have to forgive them so you can free yourself from the burden of betrayal and move on in your life, but you be the bigger person, don't stoop to their level to get back at them. And don't associate yourself with them anymore if they are just outsider people or cov niag Hmoob xwb, but still be cordial and pleasant towards them if you should bump into them down the road. Trust me, everything comes back around, someone else may come along and screw them over too. If they know that they've used you and hurted you, they don't have the face to come around you anyway. You know, txaj muag rau yus.