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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #30 on: August 17, 2011, 07:54:52 AM »
do you accept friends who almost bietch slapped you as well?  ;D ;D :D

If their purpose is to bring me back to earth? YES! ;D



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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #31 on: August 17, 2011, 12:47:04 PM »
If their purpose is to bring me back to earth? YES! ;D
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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #32 on: August 23, 2011, 05:06:36 PM »
If your really good friend or best friend cheat with your s/o behind your back. Do you think you'll ever able to repair that friendship? I would never date or cheat on my best friend's s/o but it happened to me a long time ago.
WOW!!! YOU AND YOUR FRIEND MUST BE TIGHT!



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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #33 on: August 24, 2011, 04:00:40 PM »
WOW!!! YOU AND YOUR FRIEND MUST BE TIGHT!

We ain't tight anymore like that. 2 years I saw her at a New Year's party. I just walked pass her and said hi to her husband but not her. LOL I'm usually not this cruel but I can honestly said that after she did that to me, my heart turn into stone. It took me many years to forgive and forget.



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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #34 on: August 24, 2011, 08:25:22 PM »
We all have encountered people like that, even friends or coworkers backstabbing you just so they can take the credit for something or take the top spot in a job. It hurts, especially when you trusted them too. It hurts even more when it was a family member that does that to you. In your heart you will have to forgive them so you can free yourself from the burden of betrayal and move on in your life, but you be the bigger person, don't stoop to their level to get back at them. And don't associate yourself with them anymore if they are just outsider people or cov niag Hmoob xwb, but still be cordial and pleasant towards them if you should bump into them down the road. Trust me, everything comes back around, someone else may come along and screw them over too. If they know that they've used you and hurted you, they don't have the face to come around you anyway. You know, txaj muag rau yus.



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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #35 on: August 24, 2011, 10:19:14 PM »
Yeah, like that hmong dude from my old job. Fking over the hmong, then he himself got fk by the white boyz. Then he trys to be buddy with the hmong ppl. Hahahahaa. He got his rewards.



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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #36 on: August 25, 2011, 12:01:26 AM »

Females tend to fall into the back stabing catagory more othen than guys.



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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #37 on: August 25, 2011, 08:01:53 AM »
We all have encountered people like that, even friends or coworkers backstabbing you just so they can take the credit for something or take the top spot in a job. It hurts, especially when you trusted them too. It hurts even more when it was a family member that does that to you. In your heart you will have to forgive them so you can free yourself from the burden of betrayal and move on in your life, but you be the bigger person, don't stoop to their level to get back at them. And don't associate yourself with them anymore if they are just outsider people or cov niag Hmoob xwb, but still be cordial and pleasant towards them if you should bump into them down the road. Trust me, everything comes back around, someone else may come along and screw them over too. If they know that they've used you and hurted you, they don't have the face to come around you anyway. You know, txaj muag rau yus.

I really tried to be nice even after what she did to me. I'm not the type to hold grudge or have hate in my heart toward someone but she really changed the way I viewed people. I still accepted her back as a friend but things wasn't the same anymore. I couldn't stand being around her. Everytime I'm around her I feel hurt. My perspective view of her changed drastically. I knew that I couldn't be friend with her anymore so I had to detached myself from our friendship.



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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #38 on: August 25, 2011, 10:07:55 PM »
there is no such thing as friends, either ur families or ur dawgs will ride witt cha only



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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #39 on: September 05, 2011, 03:03:48 PM »
Too many fishes in the sea to do such a thing. Sorry, but if you was my boy and you did this? I was wrong to think you were my boy in the first place.



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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #40 on: September 05, 2011, 06:36:40 PM »
Thank goodness it will never happen to me cause 1) i'm never attracted to my best friends man and 2) My friend has a different taste in men than myself.

our path of the same men will never cross. Even if it did we'll only comment that he's good looking but never cross that line.

I'm sure thats what most women who lost a bf to a BFF said.  The only way this would never happen is if you like men and she likes women and you've made it clear to her that you are only interested in being friends...noth ing more.

Only then can you rest assure that your friend will "never" cross that line.... ;D



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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #41 on: September 06, 2011, 01:28:33 AM »
Here is the real reason why Women backstab more than men. It's real simple. Women, who talk smack behind their friends back, will always keep it up. But when they're friend is around, they will act innocent, or apologize for it. " I didn't really mean it. I was mad/drunk/thought it was nothing."
Why don't men do this? Simple. If a friend said they were drunk/mad/thought it was nothing, there still be a fight. And because of that, if the bond is strong enough, after the aggression is let out, they can remain friends and try to build it again. If not they just let it go. Not stay around and keep talking behind each others back.



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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #42 on: September 06, 2011, 08:35:12 AM »
Dogtag, 1 thing you 4got. When black hair asain becomes enemy. It's 4life..lol
Why do you think that all 'em Viet(s) n Lao are our enemy. Even thou we are all asain. I don't trust any Lao or Veit even thou we live in the US...



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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #43 on: September 06, 2011, 10:36:06 AM »
I forgave an exfriend 2 times for trying to hook up with my bf's at that time and the fourth time she tried to pull that shyte, I dropped her. She's so stupid at her fruitless attempts. We were all friends, if a man liked you, he would spot you first.   ::)




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Re: Backstabbing Friends
« Reply #44 on: September 07, 2011, 11:58:36 PM »
Dogtag, 1 thing you 4got. When black hair asain becomes enemy. It's 4life..lol
Why do you think that all 'em Viet(s) n Lao are our enemy. Even thou we are all asain. I don't trust any Lao or Veit even thou we live in the US...
This qoute I can say, is just moronic. But if you live your life that way, it is your life.



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