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Are you nervous meeting the parents
« on: August 17, 2011, 11:47:08 AM »
for the first time? Does your hand get sweaty, heart beating fast, and can't swallow? LOL



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #1 on: August 17, 2011, 12:12:16 PM »
nope never...either like me or hate me..i'm being me..



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #2 on: August 17, 2011, 12:21:40 PM »
for the first time? Does your hand get sweaty, heart beating fast, and can't swallow? LOL
No.  In fact, it was a great and momentous occasion. 



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #3 on: August 17, 2011, 12:45:20 PM »
always nervous because parents can be cruel and outright mean towards you.

they can say things that are not even true or make up stuff to test eachother.



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #4 on: August 17, 2011, 12:53:42 PM »
No.  In fact, it was a great and momentous occasion. 

You must be a likeable person?



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #5 on: August 17, 2011, 12:54:43 PM »
always nervous because parents can be cruel and outright mean towards you.

they can say things that are not even true or make up stuff to test eachother.

Some parents are just outspoken but as first impression, that can be scary. I find it that majority of parents like someone who likes to talk alot and engaged in coversation easily.



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #6 on: August 17, 2011, 12:58:19 PM »
You must be a likeable person?
Perhaps.   ;)



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #7 on: August 17, 2011, 01:02:39 PM »
Perhaps.   ;)

No problem bringing you home then.  O0 :D



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #8 on: August 17, 2011, 01:05:18 PM »
i met her parents on our first date.  went better than expected.  helps that i'm a farmer's boy and can talk tomatoes and snow peas with her dad.   ;D



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #9 on: August 17, 2011, 01:11:11 PM »
i met her parents on our first date.  went better than expected.  helps that i'm a farmer's boy and can talk tomatoes and snow peas with her dad.   ;D


 ;D ;D Don't matter. I used to know a guy who was also a farmer. Well, he helped his family with planting and harvesting. One summer afternoon, he brought us a whole truck load of vegies. My parents was so happy and thought he was a great guy! He was a talk of the town for a whole month. Other parents was like "Dang, wished my daughter met someone like that". But the sad thing is that I didn't feel any physical attraction so we went our own ways.



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #10 on: August 17, 2011, 01:14:17 PM »
i was going to offer her dad a truckload of parboiled rice for their daughter in an even exchange.  the gf wouldn't let me propose the trade.  ;D



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #11 on: August 17, 2011, 01:15:58 PM »
i was going to offer her dad a truckload of parboiled rice for their daughter in an even exchange.  the gf wouldn't let me propose the trade.  ;D

hehehehe! Back in Laos, that would have been enough (evenly exhange)



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #12 on: August 17, 2011, 01:20:13 PM »
I'm always nervous when meeting new people, hehehe
but of course I'm nervous when it comes to meeting my boyfriend's parents.
I totally go blink and nothing happens, I need practice :)



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #13 on: August 17, 2011, 01:25:25 PM »
I'm always nervous when meeting new people, hehehe
but of course I'm nervous when it comes to meeting my boyfriend's parents.
I totally go blink and nothing happens, I need practice :)

The keyword is: Be yourself. I think if you be yourself, everything should go smoothly. Just be polite, respond back, eye contact, and do not babble away.



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Re: Are you nervous meeting the parents
« Reply #14 on: August 17, 2011, 01:28:57 PM »
Some parents are just outspoken but as first impression, that can be scary. I find it that majority of parents like someone who likes to talk alot and engaged in coversation easily.
Always been easy with me because of this. ;D

One thing I noticed too is a lot of elders like the outdoor stuff, so that helps if you're into hunting and fishing also. Oh yeah, at least be able understand/speak ok hmong. ;D



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