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One Night Stand
« on: August 18, 2011, 10:46:27 AM »
And no I'm not referring to your night stand table.  ;D  Some people get the wrong impression and think the other person wants to pursue a long term relationship with them when in fact the other person only want a one night stand. If you are the one seeking only a one night stand, should you be honest and up front with them so you both can be on the same page? I know some people get hurt because after the one night stand, that person never call them or ignore them in public places. It makes them feel used.



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« Reply #1 on: August 18, 2011, 11:40:52 AM »
I would tell them that I'm in for a one night stand.  If they do not agree, then no one night stand.  I think it is wrong to lie to someone when you only want a one night stand.



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #2 on: August 18, 2011, 11:43:03 AM »
Quote from: tetrapod on August 18, 2011, 11:40:52 AM
I would tell them that I'm in for a one night stand.  If they do not agree, then no one night stand.  I think it is wrong to lie to someone when you only want a one night stand.

It is because the other person might perceive it as that you have interest in him/her but in reality, you only want to get into their pant.



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #3 on: August 18, 2011, 11:45:39 AM »
Quote from: Sweet_Tears on August 18, 2011, 11:43:03 AM
It is because the other person might perceive it as that you have interest in him/her but in reality, you only want to get into their pant.

Yes, that's why you make it clear that you just want love for one night or multiple nights.  And that you two should not expect it to become anything else.  But things could change. 



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #4 on: August 18, 2011, 11:49:33 AM »
Quote from: tetrapod on August 18, 2011, 11:45:39 AM
Yes, that's why you make it clear that you just want love for one night or multiple nights.  And that you two should not expect it to become anything else.  But things could change. 

It could change. Sometimes people fall in love after a one night stand.



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #5 on: August 18, 2011, 12:04:20 PM »
HEX NO!!! being honest aint gonna get you any a$$. when the night is over, i'd rather have cum on her lips than righteousness in my heart!  :2funny: :2funny:



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #6 on: August 18, 2011, 12:20:00 PM »
One night stand, stand for pleasure not love.



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #7 on: August 18, 2011, 12:44:46 PM »
Easiest way to tell them is when they leave or you drop them off, you just say take care and see you around.



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #8 on: August 18, 2011, 12:45:51 PM »
Quote from: primetime on August 18, 2011, 12:44:46 PM
Easiest way to tell them is when they leave or you drop them off, you just say take care and see you around.

By then it'll be too late already. They already given themselve to you.



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #9 on: August 18, 2011, 01:01:09 PM »
i had a one nite stand with this girl, we both agreed on it, but she called me to go meet her at the motel again, I cancelled her azzz. ;D



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #10 on: August 18, 2011, 01:04:32 PM »
Quote from: No regret on August 18, 2011, 01:01:09 PM
i had a one nite stand with this girl, we both agreed on it, but she called me to go meet her at the motel again, I cancelled her azzz. ;D

Must have been good!



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #11 on: August 18, 2011, 01:24:34 PM »
Quote from: Sweet_Tears on August 18, 2011, 01:04:32 PM
Must have been good!

I'm sure it wasn't good that's why he didn't go for second round.  He probably thinks the cost of the motel is too much.



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #12 on: August 18, 2011, 01:25:40 PM »
Quote from: tetrapod on August 18, 2011, 01:24:34 PM
I'm sure it wasn't good that's why he didn't go for second round.  He probably thinks the cost of the motel is too much.

I meant for her. hehehe



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #13 on: August 18, 2011, 01:29:51 PM »
Quote from: Sweet_Tears on August 18, 2011, 10:46:27 AM
And no I'm not referring to your night stand table.  ;D  Some people get the wrong impression and think the other person wants to pursue a long term relationship with them when in fact the other person only want a one night stand. If you are the one seeking only a one night stand, should you be honest and up front with them so you both can be on the same page? I know some people get hurt because after the one night stand, that person never call them or ignore them in public places. It makes them feel used.

here's the TRUTH....

Most guys are just looking for just one thing, even if the girl wants more. And sometimes the guys hit it and fall in love...again, sometimes. While most men,...it's nothing but that, just a one night. If the girl is willing to give it up on the first night and gets hurt because they thought it was more then that. Surprise! It never was...

Men are dogs and I know plenty....



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Re: One Night Stand
« Reply #14 on: August 18, 2011, 01:43:16 PM »
Quote from: Ishida on August 18, 2011, 01:29:51 PM
here's the TRUTH....

Most guys are just looking for just one thing, even if the girl wants more. And sometimes the guys hit it and fall in love...again, sometimes. While most men,...it's nothing but that, just a one night. If the girl is willing to give it up on the first night and gets hurt because they thought it was more then that. Surprise! It never was...

Men are dogs and I know plenty....

Thanks for your honest input. I guess women have that emotional attachment.



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