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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #15 on: August 19, 2011, 06:55:32 AM »
He is my best friend...but like DC said, you can't be telling him everything! It's for your own good.



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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #16 on: August 19, 2011, 07:08:54 AM »
If your s/o isn't your best friend and lover, they're only there for the time being. You need BOTH if you want to grow old with each other and enjoy things together.



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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #17 on: August 19, 2011, 09:58:33 AM »
If your s/o isn't your best friend and lover, they're only there for the time being. You need BOTH if you want to grow old with each other and enjoy things together.
Nope I dont want him to be my best friend. I rather have him be my lover, better half, and s/o. That should suffice already.



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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #18 on: August 19, 2011, 12:31:40 PM »
I dont think I can be his besties or wingman. He has his brotherhood to bond with. And there are some information that I dont want him to know so I kept between me and the girlfriends.



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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #19 on: August 19, 2011, 02:38:45 PM »
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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #20 on: August 19, 2011, 11:06:31 PM »
them, don't you want them to be more than just your lover, but your best friend as well?
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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #21 on: August 21, 2011, 05:28:39 PM »
I always thought that was a given?

Friendship and love... that's what he is to me and I to him. :)



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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #22 on: August 23, 2011, 02:02:40 PM »
A distinction needs to be made or clarified here. When people talk about lovers being their best friend they're not necessarily talking about being friends or having a relationship with their lover like they do with their good friends. They're not talking about having a lover who is going to be their wing man / woman, invite them to house parties or any of that stuff. UNLESS, they are... then please correct me.

The term best friend here refers to a relationship that is not just passionately driven, but also founded on platonic friendship-- in other words, a profound understanding of one another. But such relationships takes time to form, and ultimately really depends on the compatibility of the couple, in which case, it may or may never happen for some.

These kind of relationships should be pursued but they should never be forced.



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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #23 on: August 23, 2011, 02:35:48 PM »
A distinction needs to be made or clarified here. When people talk about lovers being their best friend they're not necessarily talking about being friends or having a relationship with their lover like they do with their good friends. They're not talking about having a lover who is going to be their wing man / woman, invite them to house parties or any of that stuff. UNLESS, they are... then please correct me.

The term best friend here refers to a relationship that is not just passionately driven, but also founded on platonic friendship-- in other words, a profound understanding of one another. But such relationships takes time to form, and ultimately really depends on the compatibility of the couple, in which case, it may or may never happen for some. These kind of relationships should be pursued but they should never be forced.
That's exactly I mean.  :)



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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #24 on: August 23, 2011, 06:58:12 PM »
body n clyde, she need a soldier



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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #25 on: August 24, 2011, 11:53:59 AM »
body n clyde, she need a soldier
did u mean bonnie n clyde?



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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #26 on: August 24, 2011, 04:34:53 PM »
did u mean bonnie n clyde?

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or bath & body...???



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Re: So, when you really love someone and see a future
« Reply #27 on: September 08, 2011, 06:02:43 AM »
You're damn rite. you can set those thing together then you are set for life.

Lol. I think the question is "If".



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