I'm willing to spend a lot of money for fake happiness.
LOL! You dudes who's down in the dumps and feeling all poopy and bummed out about life and love, sure are saps!

You know there is nothing wrong with going back to Laos for a wife, do it because you've exhausted all of your options here and find a girl who your parents actually know's of her parents too and lawv pom zoo neb sib yuav. Some of our relatives sons and uncles have gone back to Laos for a wife and their lives turned out fine and they are still married. People will always be objective, but if going back to Laos will make you feel less lonely or because you want someone to take care of, then go.
The difference with some americanized Hmong American women and some Hmong Nplog girls, is that Hmong American women can do without a man while Hmong Nplog girls vam vam tuaj meekas teb. If I can't find me a good man in America, I'd rather just be single for the rest of my life. I've stopped looking a long time ago already if ya'll want the honest truth.