After breaking up.........Guys get Cocky

[Pure-Noob]

My cousin is a freshman in college, and last year he and his girl broke up. He's been heavily partying and drinking since but he tries to show no emotion. He made fun of me for listening to sad Korean songs....as if he doesn't feel lonely or sad

[boO]

I don't think your cousin is being cocky. I think your cousin do not or is unable to find a healthy outlet to release his emotions.

His way of dealing with the break up is via excessive drinking and partying as well as ridculing you.

People deal with pain differently, sometimes in a postive way and some in a self-destructive mode.

Maybe you should have a heart to heart conversation with him. If you are uncomfortable ask a close female friend or relative.

[MilesDaddy]

My cousin is a freshman in college, and last year he and his girl broke up. He's been heavily partying and drinking since but he tries to show no emotion. He made fun of me for listening to sad Korean songs....as if he doesn't feel lonely or sad

that's because he's 21 now... that's what you do when your in college....It's part of what tuition buys you. "The College Experience"

[BeautifulDisaster]

Guys don't show their emotions very much, maybe that's just a way for him to get over the hurt. You need to stop listening to sad korean music and go find/rescue your princess - just saying

[2-short]

nah everyone is differ........ ... aite

[azndoll]

My ex got cockier cuz he thinks he can get anyone he wants.. he's obsessed with white women. Don't know why he talked to me in the first place. Idiot! just cuz they still got a good lookin body and they Fcked the other person up Leavin them with the kid and stretchmark he knows he can get better now..selfish and pathetic.

[Sweet_Tears]

My cousin is a freshman in college, and last year he and his girl broke up. He's been heavily partying and drinking since but he tries to show no emotion. He made fun of me for listening to sad Korean songs....as if he doesn't feel lonely or sad

Men usually can cope better after a break-up vs women. They can move on faster too.

[MR. A]

Men usually can cope better after a break-up vs women. They can move on faster too.

Sorry but there is no truth to that....we just don't show our emotions that's why we go out and drink/party.....I was the same way back and it help.....when i was out partying/drinking my mind was just off of everything.... .for once I felt freed from all my miserys but in reality......w ell we already know that one lolz

[Sweet_Tears]

Sorry but there is no truth to that....we just don't show our emotions that's why we go out and drink/party.....I was the same way back and it help.....when i was out partying/drinking my mind was just off of everything.... .for once I felt freed from all my miserys but in reality......w ell we already know that one lolz

I'm not saying all men are like that but the majority of them can cope way better than women (regardless how they cope) and can move on faster into a new relationship. I've seen it and witnessed it with my own eyes.

[azndoll]

I have to agree wit sweet_tears i've witnessed it too.

[primetime]

I think it comes down to knowing ones worth. If you can't do better, you might just go into a cave. Now if you know you can do better, why not go and do it.

[Hung_Low]

My cousin is a freshman in college, and last year he and his girl broke up. He's been heavily partying and drinking since but he tries to show no emotion. He made fun of me for listening to sad Korean songs....as if he doesn't feel lonely or sad

Maybe that's how he really is? A drinking, partying person... just cause he does that doesn't necessary mean he's hurting or venting. When I brake up with my ex. it felt great. I went and party and had fun...

[MR. A]

I'm not saying all men are like that but the majority of them can cope way better than women (regardless how they cope) and can move on faster into a new relationship. I've seen it and witnessed it with my own eyes.

Honestly it just depends on who breaks it off or whose cheating...... normally they already have someone on the side so of course they are going to move on faster

[Sweet_Tears]

Honestly it just depends on who breaks it off or whose cheating...... normally they already have someone on the side so of course they are going to move on faster

That's true.. it depends on who is doing the heartbreaking. Usually the heartbreaker will move on faster because he's already moved on. It's just a matter of physically moving on. The one that will most likely be impacted are the ones that got broken heart.

[MR. A]

That's true.. it depends on who is doing the heartbreaking. Usually the heartbreaker will move on faster because he's already moved on. It's just a matter of physically moving on. The one that will most likely be impacted are the ones that got broken heart.

ARGH!!! finally we agree....geesh glad we aren't a couple!!! lolz jk jk jk but yes very true indeed