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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #1 on: August 24, 2011, 03:26:05 AM »
Wow pretty sad.  My heart goes out to her children and her family.




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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #2 on: August 24, 2011, 10:58:39 AM »
I knew both of them. The suspect was my close cousin and the victim a nyab. I wish he could of thought it through before taking action. Now, this mistake can never be taken back with scars that will take a long time to heal. Two beautiful children left behind. He was a great father, always taking care of his kids. He had a bad background but nevertheless he was a good family man, always showing up at family rituals and gatherings to help the elders do chores and chop meat. What he has done was not the right way to do things, he was going through so much stress that no one knew of, many friends and family had seen him over the weekend before this tragedy and had tried to make him strong for the sake of his children.

It hurts to know that we have lost two family members, two great lives that ended up in such a fatal way that leaves us distraught. He let his madness took over and did the unthinkable. I cant help but keep replaying this movie in my head, imagining the thoughts that must of ran through his mind during that 45 min. drive down south, if he thought of his children, if he suddenly regretted what he had just done, the panic of confusion, anger, madness and sadness that must of swept over him, knowing he cant take back what has been done. To sit in the parking lot of an appt. area, to pull the trigger. It was no way to end a life or a life of another. There were other ways to solve a simple matter as this, but what is done has been done and forever will the two be missed.

Life goes on but forever will they be in our hearts. Rest in Paradise. :'(



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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #3 on: August 24, 2011, 11:39:18 AM »
bossymunn...so what is their story?



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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #4 on: August 24, 2011, 11:56:36 AM »
http://www.mercedsunstar.com/2011/08/23/2014881/sheriffs-deputies-investigating.html


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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #5 on: August 24, 2011, 12:03:09 PM »
poor kids.......... ............ why cut life so short, leaving the kids behind without a mommy and daddy.. :'( :'( pab hlub cov kids heev :'(



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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #6 on: August 24, 2011, 12:22:19 PM »
Blame the Police Dept.  They are a waste of tax money not doing their jobs.



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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #7 on: August 24, 2011, 12:43:59 PM »
No matter what the problem is and who's at fault, you should never take someone's life unless it's their choice.  I'm sure the woman didn't want to die like that.  I hope that the kids are treated well and loved by both sides of the family, which I highly doubt. RIP.



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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #8 on: August 24, 2011, 02:01:57 PM »
Blame the Police Dept.  They are a waste of tax money not doing their jobs.
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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #9 on: August 24, 2011, 02:08:25 PM »
Wow, such a sad tragedy. People, there are always a way out. Life is precious!



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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #10 on: August 24, 2011, 02:17:35 PM »
DAM, so young. :(



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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #11 on: August 24, 2011, 02:57:05 PM »
Is it another cheating story or just stupid argument?



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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #12 on: August 24, 2011, 02:59:28 PM »
Names of the victims, anyone?



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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #13 on: August 24, 2011, 03:11:14 PM »
Is it another cheating story or just stupid argument?

He must have been to the slammer and his wife moved on. Out of jail and no job no money.



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Re: Merced Murder-Suicide
« Reply #14 on: August 24, 2011, 04:34:09 PM »
I know it stated in the papers that he was a "gang banger" and he was very violent. But, who are you to judge by saying he must be fresh out of jail wit no job? He had a job, a new job..he was finally starting fresh again. This story has a lot of complications to it, affairs included. BUT, the two were constantly on &off wit their relationship. What he did was wrong, anyone would agree. Ofcourse it was not her choice by fate to go but he decided to play god & took her life, then chose to take his own. The MPD should hav taken action when she sought it, it could of prevented this tragedy n maybe both will still be alive today.



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