I'm not sure why folks are so caught up in other people's actions rather than their own. Unless it's a personal situation involving yourself then you need not worry about what these people are doing with their lives. So what if they make dumb mistakes when they're infatuated or in love. That is their lesson to learn. Sometimes rationality is tossed out the window when emotions run high with havoc. I help those who want to help themselves.
I'd still give you a positive karma point because you care a lot about the general public. 
ugggh.. errrr
u hit the wrong button! now i'm minus 3 pts...

anyhow, u do have a good point HM. High emotions make for irrational decisions in love. People love and learn.
love, speaking of.
i feel i have this annoying tendency of falling into other people's love stories.
never am i the main love interest, nor even a supporting role, but, at best, a
quirky and strange "guest appearance", or, sometimes, even just a tissue that
happenstance was in arms length during an intense melodramatic scene.
other times, i am a lamp, a sofa, a vase, the kitchen table he&she is f*cking on, etc. etc.
lols.. u're just the object. dont worry, maybe you're the main character and they're just all playing in a different movie.