I'm not an expert in this but I have observed and witnessed many family and friends go through divorces, families seperated and torn apart, kids growing up with absent parents or just one parent. I hope I never have to face a divorce, but modern Hmong women these days are not taking crap from their husbands. It is said that to be a good Hmong wife, she stays put and even if her husband cheats on her, she should still be loyal and loving towards him, keep taking him back. Be a good and obedient woman and never cheat on him to get even. Hmong men will have many hearts, he'll go out sniffing, run with his pack, go through an indefility phase, but when he comes back to his senses, he'll eventually come back to loving his wife again. Bullsh*t right? Good husbands don't put their wives through that either.
People divorce for many reasons, it's just a headache analyzing and thinking about it. When I think of marriage, I only hope for the best and want to concentrate on the good things, the values you marry for.
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