yuav xav tau koob tau hmoo..do it when they're alive..
AMEN! It's only for the show/people if one does it after the person is deceased.
Do y'all think it's ridiculous for those people who doesn't show their parents their love and then after the person is dead or on it's anniversary of the death or birthday, called on air (hmong radio), sobbing and says blah...blah...
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