On my exciting and amazing journey to the stars.....

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Hatred (or anger) never ceases hatred (or anger), but only through love, that is the eternal and ancient rule.  - The Buddha

This applies to our relationship as well.

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You do not need to seek to know the truth out there as long as you know the truth in the heart, because it is what is in the heart that creates the truth out there.  Curiosity will only create disturbances for everyone.

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"To every man upon this earth
Death cometh soon or late.
And how can man die better
Than facing fearful odds,
For the ashes of his fathers,
And the temples of his Gods."[4]

- Horatius

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Only a fool thinks he can control the temptations in his heart, if he succumbs.  We are all fools, just don't be a fool too many times.

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Remember this:  Your only job in on-going relationships is to make the other person feel good, in all sorts of ways.  If you do that the other person, will move heaven and earth to come to you or stay with you.  If you do not do that, then eventually they will leave.  Trust, honesty, clarity......a ll that will pales in comparison to the power of making the person feel good.  If you complain and put down the relationship, it will evaporate much quicker as well.  It doesn't matter, if you are right or wrong or they are right or wrong.......If you result, then there's only one rule.

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Suffering is the difference between expectation and reality.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGYfxnnyIuE&list=PLzGib8vBOqpJSi1GcY3i5n41AfiLbBHSX&index=5

Thank you for your encouragement.

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May flowers line your path and sunshine light your day.
May songbirds serenade you, every step along the way.
May a rainbow run beside you in a sky that is always blue.
And may gladness fill your heart each day, your whole life through.

 - An Irish Blessing.

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My inability to diffuse our situation to a logic conclusion is what I will take from my interesting journey with you.  Thank you for the lesson.

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I know now what it is that I want to be:  Be someone who brings out the best in others, no what the circumstance.  A coach, a life coach, or a very good friend.

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Be more aggressive with S1 Positions..... .from .5VIX to VIX.

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Tending to my Fears' needs fulfills my life's purpose.

My fear keeps me alert and fresh, I will never want to get rid it, but learn to live in harmony with it.

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When do we get to meet God?  When we have no fear left in us, and only what is left is Love, Kindness, and Joy.

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You cannot know the strength of your faith, unless its been tested.

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A great leader is when the job is done.....the people says "We did it." - Lao Tzu