I had a friend that was introduced to what seem to be an amazing girl from a strong family. This was mid-life so both of them were married once already. She was very loyal even when her marriage was falling apart. Through it my friend never had any peace. He had to travel to see her because he was in another state. She saw him sometimes and sometimes not, even though he came into to two just to see her. Once had got into a car accident and totaled his rental. She thought he was just joking and refused to see him, until her friend told her what had happened. You see, love is like a very comfortable pair of shoes. It makes you feel totally at peace. If you are struggling inside, then it is not love and so get rid of it, no matter how good it looks from the outside.