Interesting post about Hmong men rocking poor girls in foreign country...

[NceegVaj]

Ger Vang
Marrying Hmong women back in Laos is like a trend only. If you really look into it, most of them were born in Laos age from mid-40's and up. In the next 10+ years they will slow down the trend. Also in 10 years the girls in Laos also bet...See More
Monday at 8:34pm · Like
Pueblo Yang Hmong girls here are too americanized.. .wants big house big cars dont wanna cook sleep in late but tons of make up and likes meeka/kaydo cock.....TROOF!
Monday at 8:42pm via mobile · Like
Amia Love Vang I don't understand when someone says hmong meeka are shady? cause your hmong meeka too! lol you are talking about yourself.
Monday at 9:46pm · Like · 3 people
Amia Love Vang It saddens me that some hmong people like to talk down of their own hmong people. If one is curious, just share your thoughts and not speak negativity. I'm not pointing any fingers but seriously talk like adults and with respect. If men go to thailand or Laos to remarry or marry girls down there. There could be lots of reasons. and I'd also like to the thank Jiaoyin Yang for sharing your story with us all.
Monday at 9:54pm · Like · 1 person
Amia Love Vang don't let others get to you. They don't understand and are curious. your experience will open up eyes and hearts. thanks for sharing! and don't leave fb cause of immature people. haha. even though u feel lonley sometimes you can always find new friends!
Monday at 10:12pm · Like
Darlene Heu Trust me, parents r ALWAYS right! Lol jiaoyin yang... Sorry if we got off to a bad start, but it doesn't matter if u have no job or what not but she should love u for who u r no matter what.. U can always build urself up as well... Ur only 21... Live ur life n along the way u will find someone... Btw what part of mil r u from?? I have a few family up in mil too
Yesterday at 12:15am · Like
Ciaj Sia Lee It doesn't matter which race why gets attached to outside of America. They all are clung on one feeling, the traditional romantic lullaby. In America we lost the basic touch of a relationship. Couples, now days cannot and will not give into each others needs anymore. That's why any men nor women who travels abroad, quickly gets drown in.
Yesterday at 1:51am · Like
Ryu Lee Their games aint working here in the US so they go there bcause its much easiest bring some money and find a girl dr tom style lol
Yesterday at 4:15am via mobile · Like
Lina Xiong
in some cases it may be that they are too americanize, for instance, if a younger man/woman goes to laos for a bride/groom, one would assume thats the case. if a older man/woman does it, then one would assume because of its young and beauti...See More
Yesterday at 8:49am · Like
Tsas Vwj It is hard to find decent Hmong women in America to match Hmong men here. They are become too Americanized.
22 hours ago via mobile · Like
Tsas Vwj It is purely selfishness to go to Laos and buy a 15yr old girl to sleep with.
22 hours ago via mobile · Like
Pa Kou Moua nooo its vim rau qhov.. the ladies over there are way easier to get no durr>!> lol!!
iono but yeah i guess the guys just miss laos and thailand you know? maybe they think dating or marrying teh ones over there will give them their life back like how it used to be lol!
20 hours ago via mobile · Like
Birdy NO Her
Hmong men are Americanized as well... I mean, c'mon nowadays, when a Hmong male marries, his family still wants to know if the potential bride to be is educated, comes from a good family and if she will be able to financially contribute to ...See More
20 hours ago · Like · 2 people
Tsas Vwj
House chores are everyones responsibility . There are chores that I do everydays that my wife never ever touch and I have no complaint at all. such as mowe the lawn, fix the cars, fix the house, etc. she does most of the cookings. I help ...See More
17 hours ago · Like
Ally Steal I'm just thinking "culture shock"....
15 hours ago · Like
Darlene Heu Tsas Vwj... Most of the chores u do r mostly meant for the man of the house to do anyway.
14 hours ago · Like
Lina Xiong heres another question within this question or thought. why is it that we define or have gender roles? what is really considered normal and why do we have the right to define what is normal and what isnt? its just something we made up or what society want us to think and behave like.
12 hours ago · Like
Darlene Heu
We don't... Sometimes it just instinct. Whatever role we have it can be done by the other gender vice versa. Some roles such as lawn mowing, fix the house/car is more of handy work and requires heavy lifting n all, at times n that's y som...See More
12 hours ago · Like · 1 person
Tsas Vwj
Chore is chore, Darlene Heu, and it is disrespectful to have my wife to carry the 100 lbs rice from the car, just because I just did it last month. I know some of you will say it's disrespectful to not let my wife do her share. Most of us...See More
10 hours ago · Like
Darlene Heu Tsas vwj... U misunderstood me... I never said that women should do what men do or switch roles or take turns... What I meant is that sometimes women CAN DO what men can do... N men can do what women do
10 hours ago · Like · 1 person
Darlene Heu
Meaning like mechanic... Fixing cars... Either gender can do it... House chores, either gender can do it... If they know how to or can...Of course my hubby does all the heavy stuff/carrying but if I can't do it, he's not gonna tell me it's ...See More
9 hours ago · Like
Darlene Heu Sometimes what comes naturally. More props to the wife if she can do it but I never said anything about taking turns or having the wife do smthg she can't. Do u get it?
9 hours ago · Like
Yang H Xiong No Offense but Since we came to the WONDERFUL COUNTRY. Some man are still getting train to take old way and some are not.. but the facts of a matter is that... most women think they have more power then man now... and some are getting lazy now since we don't farm and do anymore thing hard to feed yourself... that's one of the reason why some men still going to Laos/Thailand..
8 hours ago · Like
Darlene Heu True but I think it's the fact that we r becoming more Americanized n looking back at whAt our parents never had wer doing that for ourselves.. Maybe some have beco
7 hours ago · Like
Darlene Heu Become lazy but it's all part of evovling into the Americanize life. We forget so
7 hours ago · Like
Darlene Heu I meat... We have lost so
7 hours ago · Like
Tooj Thoj Thats like asking why Hmong women date and sometimes marry people of other race... are Hmong men not good enough?
7 hours ago · Like · 1 person
Tooj Thoj ‎(it was a rhetorical question, dont answer it)
7 hours ago · Like
Darlene Heu Somethings culturally over the years n that's y like everyone said... They just need to find sl
7 hours ago · Like
Darlene Heu Eone closer to the Hmong root... UGH!!! Sorry for my many posts!! I hate how they changed everything on the iPhone... Sucks!!
7 hours ago · Like
Tsimnuj Vue Honestly, I will not ever resort to going to Laos or Thailand to find a wife. However, I would definitely prefer someone of the opposite gender that is educated, hardworking, loving, and this is the most important thing...
6 hours ago · Like
Tsimnuj Vue someone who is traditional that respects our culture. Now I do know an individual or two whose last resort for a traditional wife was to go to Laos and marry someone there, even though she is not by our standards educated.
6 hours ago · Like
Tsimnuj Vue There are many reasons to why hmoob men decide to do these things. Nevertheless, we as outsiders do not know the context to every situation so it is hard to judge with an open mind. By traditional
6 hours ago · Like
Tsimnuj Vue I do not mean a female who will bow before the almighty man, but merely someone who speaks the language, and understands about
6 hours ago · Like
Tsimnuj Vue peb niam thiab txiv lub kua muag thaum lawv pom lawv lub ntuj qubqab nyob tebchaws Lostsuas.
6 hours ago · Like
Tsimnuj Vue For some reason I had to break up what I wrote down. Facebook wouldn't let me post my response unless I broke it down to merely a few sentences per post. Annoying if you ask me.
6 hours ago · Like
Lenhwa Hmoob Hmong mens want eat young grass
5 hours ago · Like
Grace Point Church
From the perspective of these men, and there are honest ones. American Hmong women have high expectations for selection of guys. This is their typical requirements:

1. He must be good looking, handsome.
2. He must have a good body figure.
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4 hours ago · Like · 1 person
Klare Vue Of course we want all those good traits in a man! Should we settle for less? Heck no! Just because we want a man who can take care of themselves doesn't mean that we have unrealistic requirements, just like anyone would have requirements.
2 hours ago · Like · 1 person
Klare Vue And we don't have high expectations & what you listed are not our typical requirements, not even close!
2 hours ago · Like · 1 person
Klare Vue You forgot to list faithful, caring, romantic, family oriented, goal oriented, etc. etc. These are more like realistic requirements.
2 hours ago · Like · 1 person
Klare Vue And I honestly think men go back to Thailand to find their brides because its more convenient for them. American women are smart now, we know what we want and we won't put up with anything, I think this intimidates the Hmong men so they want a submissive wife, someone vulnerable, so who do they choose?
2 hours ago · Like
Sharny Yang Ego. Young meat. Wants submissive wife. No worry. The trend is changing. It's part of a growing people.
2 hours ago via mobile · Like
Tsas Vwj Tooj Thoj, you dont want to ask the girls why they not marry Hmong men when are pretty and independent. They will go after you like you are a terrorist against their freedom. Ask Darlene Heu, she wouldnt like it.
52 minutes ago via mobile · Like
Tsas Vwj Grace Point Church, you are correctly point out all the requirement to marry a highly educated Hmong woman, and that man is from Hollywood. Hmong men chose young and tender wives from over sea. Sooooo selfish everyone!
48 minutes ago via mobile · Like
Amia Love Vang ‎@ Grace Point Church I strongly disagree with you. Your requirements are only what you believe in. Please don't speak for us hmong women here in America. We have a heart like every other women. We do not just look at the physical features. We look at the men and see what kind of men they are first.. And if hmong men go to thailand could be that they are looking for that spark that died here in america....
7 minutes ago · Like

[DonJuan]

It looks on paper but from what I've seen with "westernized" Hmong, they sure don't act as they say. Cause I have to pick up the mess afterward. And am still doing it!

[parana]

Hmong Americans are being influenced by the mainstream media, mainley shady tv sitcoms and shallow American culture.  I'm not blaming Hmong people nor mainstream Americans but the culture itself is leading to a self destructive path.  For one to understand, one must look at the American way of life from the outside.

[AOZ]

it's not only Hmong.  mekas and other ppl do it too.  it's just that men have more choices now that they have the means to do it.... they should hope that they don't get caught trying to buy a child bride. 

most men will blame it on this femeninist society... that has turn mekas women into demanding beeches who have become selfish... hehehe.

[parana]

it's not only Hmong.  mekas and other ppl do it too.  it's just that men have more choices now that they have the means to do it.... they should hope that they don't get caught trying to buy a child bride.  

most men will blame it on this femeninist society... that has turn mekas women into demanding beeches who have become selfish... hehehe.

demanding for equal rights and fair treatment is what I am for 100%.  The part about women wanting to wear the pants yet expect the men to treat them like a lady while she continues to bitttch and whine about everything in life is still somewhat confusing. 

I've viewed this clip for a couple of times but I still get a kick out of it everytime I view it.  You all should enjoy, too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8NnE5z9L_o

[NceegVaj]

Wow, amazing after all these times!

[yuknowthat]

 

[aHMONGrican guy]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YU1eLrPm68&lc=gDhtZ963Y9Mw29pn7AgABtx-RMOatm3E4N2qIre6DmM&context=G285da24FAAAAAAAAGAA&feature=g-all-c