Why would anyone go meet someone who they meet on the internet without seeing their recent pictures or webcam? For me to go meet someone online I have to see atleast 3 recent pictures of herself. One picture with close looks at her face, one with her whole body showing, and one with tight clothes on. And I'll do the same for her plus many conversations on the phone. Otherwise, you have to expect the unexpected.

But to answer your question, we took a gamble when we pay for her trips and expenses. Most of the time we will win her love with the trip, but some of those rare occasions where the lady is too picky or just want to use the guy's money then we don't get it. But like I said, it's a gamble we took.